Pls. Advice me!!i dont understand my attitude..will i need a guidance counsel?

[RainDrizzle07]

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man libre ko sa Vudu ugma you layk? ^_^

[ain]

man libre ko sa Vudu ugma you layk? ^_^

Wahahahaha.... Ayayay... KA ninDot gud ani.... FREE OFFERING nman.. ThankS bRO ha...

[RainDrizzle07]

Wahahahaha.... Ayayay... KA ninDot gud ani.... FREE OFFERING nman.. ThankS bRO ha...

pero btaw sistero..

naa ra jud na nmo tanan ug magpa bilin ka dha sa imong nahimutangan

ako kay.. naka realize man ko ug gkapoy na sa akong sitwasyon

mao nag decide ko na mo lingkawas ko.. ^_^

At one point honestly ka huna2x nlng jud ko ug suicide

pero gahuna2x pud ko ato timema, what happen to my mother if mobiya ko..
pwerte na niya antos namu..unya mag ning ato pa jud ko.. dba? ^_^

Karon happy na kay ko.. ^_^

kay I love myself more nmn ang akong motto jud..

I don't compromise myself nmn, bahala na ng uyab ug ubang taw dha..

[RainDrizzle07]

Wahahahaha.... Ayayay... KA ninDot gud ani.... FREE OFFERING nman.. ThankS bRO ha...

cge daun!! ahhaah I don't drink beer... mojito or screw driver then limit is 5 glass.. after that..stop nah.. ^_^

kay I need to set limitations man pud to myself, kay knsa paman diay lain mobuhat anah..kundi kta rapud dba? ^_^

Take Control of ur Life ^_^

Need to go.. check ur thread tomorrow.. ^_^

[Nikki80]

mental hospital na mam...hehehe

murag mao jud nay pasabot hehehe

[WEI?]

ain try to minimize sa imung pagkamaldita ayaw sad magplinastic. Try to be your good old self.
You dont need a guidance council you can figure that problem on your own. Kbalo ko kaya ra jud na nimu...

or try telling your friends about that or mag-open forum mo.
Think positive alweiz ain.


I know you can do it!!!

[ain]

cge daun!! ahhaah I don't drink beer... mojito or screw driver then limit is 5 glass.. after that..stop nah.. ^_^

kay I need to set limitations man pud to myself, kay knsa paman diay lain mobuhat anah..kundi kta rapud dba? ^_^

Take Control of ur Life ^_^

Need to go.. check ur thread tomorrow.. ^_^

Thankssss BRo.... Take care

[ain]

ain try to minimize sa imung pagkamaldita ayaw sad magplinastic. Try to be your good old self.
You dont need a guidance council you can figure that problem on your own. Kbalo ko kaya ra jud na nimu...

or try telling your friends about that or mag-open forum mo.
Think positive alweiz ain.


I know you can do it!!!

Wow SamalaT Wei.... U know wat, U encouraged me to BEcome STRONGER.. And i am THANKFUL.... Yes, I can DO IT.. I should always Think that!! thankssssssssssssss a LOT....mwah

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Hmm....

I think you dont need any counseling at all...

You just need to enlighten yourself. Go to Church.

If u wont, then get an out-of-town vacation.

I am really not that religious but when it comes to those things that i dont understand or things that im just hesitant to understand i just go to church and ask guidance.

Maybe you just need peace of mind. Go to a place where silence and serenity hail.

[jodoyz]

Pls don't be offended. Just giving out my opinion on ur thread..

Being MALDITA is still UNCONCIOUSLY hurting somebody. If you say its normal, then you call urself TACTLESS, or better yet OUTSPOKEN.

(1) being jealous/being insecure - remember God created us through his image and likeness. so practically we are all the same. and we got nothing to be insecure about. you have so much things on ur mind sis, just FOCUS on one thing ----YOU, are YOU! and you cannot change that. but what you can do is LUV URSELF, be CONFIDENT about urself. cos once you don't, then you end up getting jealous of other people, whom at the end you'd realize that they are not even worth to be jealous with. and remember, HE IS JUST A GUY. Let him be, but when it comes to the point where you think he is really flirting with someone else, then there you get the right to really say something.

(2) impatient - its NOT BEING IMPATIENT u r talking about. being impatient is different. it pertains to have to wait for something. ---- What you really mean is, ANGER MANAGEMENT ISSUES. You are too SHALLOW. You really need to control yourself, indulge yourself to hobbies or activities, or even exercise. just to take your mind of anything, and to keep you busy also.

(3) nagger - so you talk a LOT. here you become TACTLESS. this results from LOSS of CONFIDENCE, NOT LOVING URSELF, and POOR ANGER MANAGEMENT.

(4) back to MALDITA - YOU ARE INSECURE, TACTLESS, UNCONFIDENT, NOT LOVING ONESELF and has ANGER MANAGEMENT ISSUES.

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Above all.... You still have your BF right?

BUT.... YOU REALLY need to change your lifestyle. make this your RESOLUTION for the next year. You don't need counseling. You just need to DISCIPLINE urself. DETERMINATION of wanting to change your attitude is the key factor to help you go through this.

(1)First thing you got to do, TAKE A BREAK!! (Does not mean you should leave ur bf. Just reserve a time to be with yourself. He will understand cos he's been with you after all those negative things.) You should not decide of anything serious at this moment. Never. just concentrate on taking a break.

(2)Next, DO SOME ACTIVITIES YOU LOVE. OR Try something NEW. Something to keep you busy with yourself. Cos being with YOURSELF, will make you realize what you are missing.

(3) After the time You've spent with yourself.. GO out with your closest friends! Those friends that have been with you through the years, that has never let go on any obstacles... It will help on letting you remember what life is all about. Just being HAPPY with the people you love the most.

OR. You can spend some time with your family. Be with them.

(4)Apologize to those whom you have or might have hurted. Forgive those who had or might have hurted you.

(5) Last, LOVE URSELF. BE CONFIDENT!!

You really don't need counseling! Just motivate urself. U can do it