Pwede mangayug help?:(

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

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to all of those who shared their thoughts.

salamat salamat salamat.

at least i found refuge from this page. hehehe.
well yeah, most of you are all right. i should'nt be a martyr. well, im really not. chixboy sa mn sad ko sa way panghambog. hehehe.
its just that, tagsa ra kay ta mahigugma mao if makit.an nato na murag mao na ni. magsineryoso jd ta dba..

i talked to her last night over the phone. and she said, she's really looking forward for them having a relationship. and about me. still no. not this time kay hot pa daw ang issue sa "love traingle type prob"

SO here's what i thought of after a few cigarettes

i'd still be there for her. listen to her probs and continue to help her even if it hurts. besides, i can still love her even if im just her friend.

wont think about it anymore. let things be. if i dont get her, maybe there's someone better that's coming soon. hahahaha.


thanks for the advice guys. i really appreciate it.

u're inluv really to the point dat u wud just agree to be the "meantime guy" even f it hurts so much...but the thing is the more u stay with her or hope that there's a chance between u 2, the more that u'll get hurt...everytym she confides with you or talks to u about simple stuffs regarding their relationship, u cant deny the fact that ull get affected coz u have feelings for her...but then again, the decision is urs...the questions are, how long can u endure the pain?until when are you willing to wait?...coz in a gurl's point of view(im not saying all), usually those are lame excuses...the gurl's reasons are so shallow...u can read between the lines on her reasons...she said, it's not the right time bcoz of ur friend?in the first place u dont have a relationship with ur frend and if ur frend is really a good frend, she wud understand and give way for both of u...besides, wen wud be the right tym?if they are really good frends, they will remain frends like forever...so wat does the gurl wants?for both of u to wait until their frendship breaks?pathetic!on the other hand, the gurl told u she's looking forward for them(gurl and other guy) having a relationship?isnt that a sign that she's choosing between u and the other guy and she chose the other guy over u?if u're the guy that she really loves, she won't get into a relationship with another guy...instead, she'll find a way, to fix ur prob...perhaps, both of u can talk to ur frend and tell her that ur both inluv...or if she really think that it's not the right time bcoz of ur frend, still it doesnt give her an excuse to get into a relationship with another guy if she really loves u...it just sounds like she's turning u down in a soft or polite way...im sorry TS, i just wanna share coz im also a gurl and i have tried those kind of excuses although im not saying nor am i assuming that that's wat her doing but u shud also consider all possibilities, right?so im just giving u my opinions hoping it cud somehow enlighten or help you...

anyway, dont dwell on that...as u mentioned, let it be...and yes sumone better might be coming soon...ull never know, hehehehe...

rock on bro!

[ballsandword]

bro niccolai: if love jud ka sa girl, she will fight for it, who gives a damn dba? naa man gani na mag igsoon nag traydoray...here's the thing, she's falling for the rich guy, simply because of the money milking around her..and kung ako nimu bro, ad2.a cya sa ilaha and, igna na magdate mo as friends lang gud, bahala nang uban dha kung unsa ila panulti..basta u love each other..i know how u feel right now bro, it happened to me too.

[niccolai]

u're inluv really to the point dat u wud just agree to be the "meantime guy" even f it hurts so much...but the thing is the more u stay with her or hope that there's a chance between u 2, the more that u'll get hurt...everytym she confides with you or talks to u about simple stuffs regarding their relationship, u cant deny the fact that ull get affected coz u have feelings for her...but then again, the decision is urs...the questions are, how long can u endure the pain?until when are you willing to wait?...coz in a gurl's point of view(im not saying all), usually those are lame excuses...the gurl's reasons are so shallow...u can read between the lines on her reasons...she said, it's not the right time bcoz of ur friend?in the first place u dont have a relationship with ur frend and if ur frend is really a good frend, she wud understand and give way for both of u...besides, wen wud be the right tym?if they are really good frends, they will remain frends like forever...so wat does the gurl wants?for both of u to wait until their frendship breaks?pathetic!on the other hand, the gurl told u she's looking forward for them(gurl and other guy) having a relationship?isnt that a sign that she's choosing between u and the other guy and she chose the other guy over u?if u're the guy that she really loves, she won't get into a relationship with another guy...instead, she'll find a way, to fix ur prob...perhaps, both of u can talk to ur frend and tell her that ur both inluv...or if she really think that it's not the right time bcoz of ur frend, still it doesnt give her an excuse to get into a relationship with another guy if she really loves u...it just sounds like she's turning u down in a soft or polite way...im sorry TS, i just wanna share coz im also a gurl and i have tried those kind of excuses although im not saying nor am i assuming that that's wat her doing but u shud also consider all possibilities, right?so im just giving u my opinions hoping it cud somehow enlighten or help you...

anyway, dont dwell on that...as u mentioned, let it be...and yes sumone better might be coming soon...ull never know, hehehehe...

rock on bro!

yea. this is what i wanna hear. something from a girls point of view.
well. yea. guess you're right. ok ra ko meantime guy. hehe. wait? wait till mo expire ko. ahaha. i'll know when to stop. pero not now lang sa. time will take me away from her if di jd pde magkakami.

salamat kay sa advice. daku kay ko na learn sa imo gisulti.

[niccolai]

bro niccolai: if love jud ka sa girl, she will fight for it, who gives a damn dba? naa man gani na mag igsoon nag traydoray...here's the thing, she's falling for the rich guy, simply because of the money milking around her..and kung ako nimu bro, ad2.a cya sa ilaha and, igna na magdate mo as friends lang gud, bahala nang uban dha kung unsa ila panulti..basta u love each other..i know how u feel right now bro, it happened to me too.

brad. actually. di ra man jd pd cguro ang kadato sa laki iyang gi apas. chuy man sd ang laki. cute sad daw. nya na may banda2. gnhan sad daw cya.
saon wala man ko ana tnan.
uyamot nga istoryan ra man ko. toinks.

ge lang bro. im starting to let go of things na man. di lang ko mag sinelfish ba. e.consider sad nako iyang na feel. kung asa cya happy adto lang sad ko.

salamt kay bai.

[epoyking]

ok ra na bro... unsaon man ana man jud na panahon usahay swertihon ta usahay malason pud ta.. pero mas permi lang jud ang malas... hehehe

"But the girl told me na not now lang daw, let's wait for the right time. Nisabot ra ko and I said yes"
- basin d pa right time bro...

[niccolai]

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lagi. ge lang. pas2 btaw nang time
ahaha. besides. if nahan lang jd ko, dali ra kay cya ilisan. di lang jod ma basta2 kay tagsa ra man ta mahigugma.

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

yea. this is what i wanna hear. something from a girls point of view.
well. yea. guess you're right. ok ra ko meantime guy. hehe. wait? wait till mo expire ko. ahaha. i'll know when to stop. pero not now lang sa. time will take me away from her if di jd pde magkakami.

salamat kay sa advice. daku kay ko na learn sa imo gisulti.

thanks pud ky naappreciate nmo...

[Maikeru]

brad. actually. di ra man jd pd cguro ang kadato sa laki iyang gi apas. chuy man sd ang laki. cute sad daw. nya na may banda2. gnhan sad daw cya.
saon wala man ko ana tnan.
uyamot nga istoryan ra man ko. toinks.

ge lang bro. im starting to let go of things na man. di lang ko mag sinelfish ba. e.consider sad nako iyang na feel. kung asa cya happy adto lang sad ko.

salamt kay bai.

Oh my. mao ra na iya gipangita? kana choi? kana banda2x? Naku po.
I'd support ana mo decision nga mo let go.

[gARN]

Ei TS, nindut man sad mahimung meantime guy.. Just be sure that the feelings u have for her will not eat u from inside-out.. Don't let ur feelings get the best of u.. Else, u'll be a jealous meantime guy, a loser who got his heart broken playing the love game.. Tsk! Anyway, make the best out of wat u have with her now.. Who knows, the tables might turn, and in the u'll end up to be the chip leader.. As iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn always say -- Rock On!

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

Ei TS, nindut man sad mahimung meantime guy.. Just be sure that the feelings u have for her will not eat u from inside-out.. Don't let ur feelings get the best of u.. Else, u'll be a jealous meantime guy, a loser who got his heart broken playing the love game.. Tsk! Anyway, make the best out of wat u have with her now.. Who knows, the tables might turn, and in the u'll end up to be the chip leader.. As iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn always say -- Rock On!

naapil man ako name...hehehe...btaw2x....ROCK ON!!! \m/