Pwede mangayug help?:(

[jeff_bonz59]

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the person ain't worth your time.. it's just like getting a piece of rock and banging it on your head!

Until you realize that you're stil have a life of your own.. you will never wake from your self created dream..

[ethzneuron]

maka- man sad ta bro... how sad!..
move-on nalang gyud ka bro...what else can a pawn do.. move on!

[miss istorya.net]

thank you for your replies guys
i had too much of this during the weekend i ended up getting sick and had fever for 2 days. rarely happens tho.

@ ms.istorya.net : yea the brat realized na saup xa. pero she's saying na if magkauyab mi. maguba jd daw ilang frndship and i dont want that to happen coz roomates man cla sa akong girl. and i dont want my girl to suffer the consequences. ok ra untag ako. and yea, i did think her love wasnt really that strong yet coz no action was taken ^_^ poor me.

my girl is learning to love the rich guy. well of course they always go together. pero ana cya nako, di daw xa sure. but she wants to fall in love with him. oh GOd. so after 2 days of thinking about it too much. i decided to just let her do what she wants and i'll just stay as her friend and be there when she needs help. besides, friendship is something that weighs more than a bf btaw. ) ahaha.
pero i'd still wait, tho i'd get hurt. i'd still stay and look out for her. bsta happy lang cya sa? ok na kay nako. and whenever she fallss down, ako na jud mismo mu tabang niyag barug.

you're giving up too much for her and i'm sorry to say this but she is not even really worth it. anyways, do whatever makes you happy 'coz at the end of the day, it's still you who would have to make a choice for yourself and suffer the consequence/s of your every decision. I summon all the luck in the world for you, brother

[Ryan747]

Though love namo ang usa't usa, we cant even see each other kay mahadlok akong girl na makit.an mi sa frnds sa iyang room8 na frnd niya. Ang labas, traydor cya, murag cyay nangilog. And she cant do that to her friend.

Cebu is a big place. Don't tell me ing ana ka daghan ang friends sa iyang roommate nga makit.an mo.

[COLOR=DarkGreen]Ok here's the thing.
It hurts even more. Kay slowly, im fading away from the page.
Ang guy og ako girl, cge na lag party nya mu uli akong girl tag 5am na.
Laki ko and khbaw ko unsa mabuhat sa laki when you're both drunk.

And what will you do if you're both drunk?

Imong gi generalize nga all men will do something to a girl if hubog cya.

[Maikeru]

thank you for your replies guys
i had too much of this during the weekend i ended up getting sick and had fever for 2 days. rarely happens tho.

@ treize: yea tried to fight for it, but i cant even start. the girl doesnt want to go out with me kay hadlok cya makit.an mi sa frnds sa among frnd. naunhan na noun ko sa lain. But, bsag sa txt lang. mu ana cya na di jd daw mi pede magka uyab at this moment kay mao lagi tu. so wala na lang jd. iwas na lang xa nako.


@ ms.istorya.net : yea the brat realized na saup xa. pero she's saying na if magkauyab mi. maguba jd daw ilang frndship and i dont want that to happen coz roomates man cla sa akong girl. and i dont want my girl to suffer the consequences. ok ra untag ako. and yea, i did think her love wasnt really that strong yet coz no action was taken ^_^ poor me.

my girl is learning to love the rich guy. well of course they always go together. pero ana cya nako, di daw xa sure. but she wants to fall in love with him. oh GOd. so after 2 days of thinking about it too much. i decided to just let her do what she wants and i'll just stay as her friend and be there when she needs help. besides, friendship is something that weighs more than a bf btaw. ) ahaha.
pero i'd still wait, tho i'd get hurt. i'd still stay and look out for her. bsta happy lang cya sa? ok na kay nako. and whenever she fallss down, ako na jud mismo mu tabang niyag barug.

again guys lamat kayu sa tambag ninyo. dont have close frnds gud nya ma pride sad ko. di ko nahan mo vent out sa mga ka barkada nako laki kay kanchawan ra ta. this isn't a small deal for me, im talking about big names here these aren't just the whose-he/she? individuals.. hehe.

If I am in your situation I probably would do the same. Sige lang, it's not like it is the end of the world for you. Sure, it hurts but it'll pass. If dli man gani kana nga girl ang para imo, you'd probably meet someone more worth than her. (daghan pa ang nagSayal nga walay itlog nga nagbitay)

So cheer up.

[gARN]

i suggest move on nlng ka bro...if love ka sa gurl, sensitive unta xa sa imong feelings...sa imong posts gud or sa gipangbuhat sa gurl ky murag wala xay paki sa imong na feel...

^^Here's a good point.. I mean if she really likes you, she will go out with u no matter wat.. Moreover, if she wants an intimate relationship w/ you, she will not entertain other guys (..not unless if she's just trying to make u jealous).. From the looks of things, u're no longer fading away from the page.. u've faded away..

Now, you can either win her back, or move on with your life w/out her.. Its up to u.. However, my advise to u is.. Stop being a martyr.. If you want sumthing, fight for it bcoz more often than not, it will not be served to u in a silver platter.. Remember that martyrs are sacrificial victims.. most of them (..if not all) are dead bcoz of their selfless desire to make other pipol happy.. --which in my opinion if foolish.. Sigh!

[niccolai]

The issue here is not the girl friend or the friend or the other guy.

The issue here is you.

Are you ready for a relationship?

It seems that you are not.

You said you are busy.

Relationships requires time together.

You like the girl.
But you do not know her well.
She seemed to be a materialistic and shallow girl for you.

A girl liked you, yet she sees you as insensitive and that maybe true.

Do not want for a relationship if you still can not afford the cost
--financial, emotional or physical (time wise).

Learn from this.

thanx for this sir. well. as to this, i am pretty sure that i am ready for the costs of being in a relationship. i mean, yea. Im just busy because I started working, thinking that.. Since when we first met, tambay ra man gud ko. wala skul, cge lag inom, party life. barkada ra. SO i decided, i should get a life. and uhh.. im sort of changing myself so that i can show her that her presence in my life is doing something good in me..

thanks for the replies. i appreciate you all.

[niccolai]

Cebu is a big place. Don't tell me ing ana ka daghan ang friends sa iyang roommate nga makit.an mo.





And what will you do if you're both drunk?

Imong gi generalize nga all men will do something to a girl if hubog cya.

ryan. we can only go around the city man gud. and as i mentioned. these people have big names
sikat man gud. sikat pud ug school. mao likay na lang cya.



salamat sa reply bro. i appreciate. rock on.

[niccolai]

to all of those who shared their thoughts.

salamat salamat salamat.

at least i found refuge from this page. hehehe.
well yeah, most of you are all right. i should'nt be a martyr. well, im really not. chixboy sa mn sad ko sa way panghambog. hehehe.
its just that, tagsa ra kay ta mahigugma mao if makit.an nato na murag mao na ni. magsineryoso jd ta dba..

i talked to her last night over the phone. and she said, she's really looking forward for them having a relationship. and about me. still no. not this time kay hot pa daw ang issue sa "love traingle type prob"

SO here's what i thought of after a few cigarettes

i'd still be there for her. listen to her probs and continue to help her even if it hurts. besides, i can still love her even if im just her friend.

wont think about it anymore. let things be. if i dont get her, maybe there's someone better that's coming soon. hahahaha.


thanks for the advice guys. i really appreciate it.

[heisenberg69]

Ok here's the thing.

Naa ko naka dungan ug take ug entrance exam sa isa ka sikat na skul sa cebu. nagkaila mi nya she lives a couple of kms ra away sa amoa. pero wala mi nagka close kaayo.
After 2 yrs nag ka communicate mi and she started telling na manglaag daw mi. since busy ko di kaayo ko kasabay but naka uban ko kausa.
After ato cge na ko niya hagdun adto sa ila dorm nya dungan na sad mi dinner.
Ni ana cya nako na naa daw cya na feel nako. I ddnt expect na ingato kay di man ko gwapo. poor ra sd ko. So ni thank you lang ko niya. For me, our friendship matters most.

The Twist.

After weeks na cge tambay sa ilang dorm, na ila2 nako iyang room8/classmate/close frnd. She was rare. First idol ra nako cya, until i got her number and we started talking bout things.
Na inlove ko niya and surprisingly, she felt the same way too. I even started changing myself since then. Nag work ko sa office sako tita, i dont drink too much anymore. i dont smoke anymore kay nahan ko na worthy sad ko e.love back. So mao to.

Ako gi storya akong friend na nagpa ila2 namo and told her everything. She reacted the way i dd not want to. I told her na single ko for 3 years and this was the time na seryoso ko sa babaii.
Pero di cya musugot magkauyab mi sa girl kay insensitive daw ko.

Though love namo ang usa't usa, we cant even see each other kay mahadlok akong girl na makit.an mi sa frnds sa iyang room8 na frnd niya. Ang labas, traydor cya, murag cyay nangilog. And she cant do that to her friend.

It's quite hard for me. Kay tagsa ra kay ko mahigugma, di pa jd pde.
But the girl told me na not now lang daw, let's wait for the right time. Nisabot ra ko and I said yes.
But on the process of waiting, naay ni diskarte sa akong girl.
DATO, CHUY pero di xa nahan kay chixboy daw nya kabuangan ra cya. BUT THEN, she told me na she's falling for him.

We don't see each other, We rarely txt kay busy cya. Mao ang laki na nidskarte niya, naa tanan time na mag uban cla. labi na kay nay awto.

It hurts even more. Kay slowly, im fading away from the page.
Ang guy og ako girl, cge na lag party nya mu uli akong girl tag 5am na.
Laki ko and khbaw ko unsa mabuhat sa laki when you're both drunk.




Im pissed. Luya kay ko. Tanan makatagbo nako na kaila, mu ask. "ok raka do? luya lagi ta ron?"
then i smile. fake.


saon na man ni oyyyy.
i dont know what to do. im not a fan of this, pero hey. CAn you help me with this?
wala lang ko ma storya pud.

ganahan jud kaau ko in-ani nga topic ay...

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