Pwede mangayug help?:(

[niccolai]

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Ok here's the thing.

Naa ko naka dungan ug take ug entrance exam sa isa ka sikat na skul sa cebu. nagkaila mi nya she lives a couple of kms ra away sa amoa. pero wala mi nagka close kaayo.
After 2 yrs nag ka communicate mi and she started telling na manglaag daw mi. since busy ko di kaayo ko kasabay but naka uban ko kausa.
After ato cge na ko niya hagdun adto sa ila dorm nya dungan na sad mi dinner.
Ni ana cya nako na naa daw cya na feel nako. I ddnt expect na ingato kay di man ko gwapo. poor ra sd ko. So ni thank you lang ko niya. For me, our friendship matters most.

The Twist.

After weeks na cge tambay sa ilang dorm, na ila2 nako iyang room8/classmate/close frnd. She was rare. First idol ra nako cya, until i got her number and we started talking bout things.
Na inlove ko niya and surprisingly, she felt the same way too. I even started changing myself since then. Nag work ko sa office sako tita, i dont drink too much anymore. i dont smoke anymore kay nahan ko na worthy sad ko e.love back. So mao to.

Ako gi storya akong friend na nagpa ila2 namo and told her everything. She reacted the way i dd not want to. I told her na single ko for 3 years and this was the time na seryoso ko sa babaii.
Pero di cya musugot magkauyab mi sa girl kay insensitive daw ko.

Though love namo ang usa't usa, we cant even see each other kay mahadlok akong girl na makit.an mi sa frnds sa iyang room8 na frnd niya. Ang labas, traydor cya, murag cyay nangilog. And she cant do that to her friend.

It's quite hard for me. Kay tagsa ra kay ko mahigugma, di pa jd pde.
But the girl told me na not now lang daw, let's wait for the right time. Nisabot ra ko and I said yes.
But on the process of waiting, naay ni diskarte sa akong girl.
DATO, CHUY pero di xa nahan kay chixboy daw nya kabuangan ra cya. BUT THEN, she told me na she's falling for him.

We don't see each other, We rarely txt kay busy cya. Mao ang laki na nidskarte niya, naa tanan time na mag uban cla. labi na kay nay awto.

It hurts even more. Kay slowly, im fading away from the page.
Ang guy og ako girl, cge na lag party nya mu uli akong girl tag 5am na.
Laki ko and khbaw ko unsa mabuhat sa laki when you're both drunk.




Im pissed. Luya kay ko. Tanan makatagbo nako na kaila, mu ask. "ok raka do? luya lagi ta ron?"
then i smile. fake.


saon na man ni oyyyy.
i dont know what to do. im not a fan of this, pero hey. CAn you help me with this?
wala lang ko ma storya pud.

[treize]

there's nothing you can do about it, if willing ka magpaka martyr og maghuwat hangtod pwede then go, but if you want to forget about her and move on then learn to hate her, hate will make it easier to move on. kung wa pa lang ka nagpakamartyr in the first place then ni fight na ta ka sa imong gi feel for her before. the problem is the girl might see things differently she might think why should she wait for you when you cant even fight for what you feel for her. di ba? the girl just move on. Good Luck nalang..

[miss istorya.net]

awww i think you're a sweet and nice guy. i feel sorry for what happened to u. but honestly, if your girl really loved u, she could have fought for her love for u from that selfish lil brat girl u first met. because in the first place, that brat cant do anything since you and your girl are really in love with each other, as u said. moving on to a relationship with your girl would have made that brat realize that she is just being selfish, mean, and pathetic for stopping 2 hearts in love. don't be an underdog, learn to express what u think and feel! (appropriately of course).. and about that rich guy, try talking to your girl about the status of her feelings if she really wants to go with mr. rich guy or mr. nice guy (you). never underestimate yourself just because u claim to be poor. if your girl is already in love with mr. rich guy, i suggest u respect her decision. it is never good to destroy the relationship of people in love or in greed. haha. just be patient. wait. in God's time, you will soon find the woman who wouldn't look down on u for ur status. who would love and appreciate you for who you are. and who would fight for the love she would feel for you. you have my prayers. God Bless

[niccolai]

thank you for your replies guys
i had too much of this during the weekend i ended up getting sick and had fever for 2 days. rarely happens tho.

@ treize: yea tried to fight for it, but i cant even start. the girl doesnt want to go out with me kay hadlok cya makit.an mi sa frnds sa among frnd. naunhan na noun ko sa lain. But, bsag sa txt lang. mu ana cya na di jd daw mi pede magka uyab at this moment kay mao lagi tu. so wala na lang jd. iwas na lang xa nako.


@ ms.istorya.net : yea the brat realized na saup xa. pero she's saying na if magkauyab mi. maguba jd daw ilang frndship and i dont want that to happen coz roomates man cla sa akong girl. and i dont want my girl to suffer the consequences. ok ra untag ako. and yea, i did think her love wasnt really that strong yet coz no action was taken ^_^ poor me.

my girl is learning to love the rich guy. well of course they always go together. pero ana cya nako, di daw xa sure. but she wants to fall in love with him. oh GOd. so after 2 days of thinking about it too much. i decided to just let her do what she wants and i'll just stay as her friend and be there when she needs help. besides, friendship is something that weighs more than a bf btaw. ) ahaha.
pero i'd still wait, tho i'd get hurt. i'd still stay and look out for her. bsta happy lang cya sa? ok na kay nako. and whenever she fallss down, ako na jud mismo mu tabang niyag barug.

again guys lamat kayu sa tambag ninyo. dont have close frnds gud nya ma pride sad ko. di ko nahan mo vent out sa mga ka barkada nako laki kay kanchawan ra ta. this isn't a small deal for me, im talking about big names here these aren't just the whose-he/she? individuals.. hehe.

[cesski]

hmmm.. seems like your girl is enjoying the perks of money..

talk to her.. if she's still not sure of her feelings for you, let her go. maybe she's just not being honest with you. pagprinangkahay mu duha gud. basin iyaha rato front na hadlok siya makit-an sa friends sa inyong miga unya di jud diay siya ganahan nimu. honesty hurts but it's best when you know everything in advance before you invest too much.

i mean why would she hang out with mr. rich guy if she really likes you? if she really does like you, then she shouldn't entertain other suitors. remember communication is everything. so go talk to her.. kanang personal jud aron maklaro kung makak ba or wa.

[bwahahaha]

sa walay pag basabasa nako sa imong text bai og sa walay pag duha duha sa akong nakita ang tambal ra ana malibang ka then mo relax then close your eyes nya matulog.. nya e utot ang tanan para mawala ang imong na hunahuna mao rana bai. kong sa madali nga istorya "forget" all you see.. hehehe

[Soul Doctor]

The issue here is not the girl friend or the friend or the other guy.

The issue here is you.

Are you ready for a relationship?

It seems that you are not.

You said you are busy.

Relationships requires time together.

You like the girl.
But you do not know her well.
She seemed to be a materialistic and shallow girl for you.

A girl liked you, yet she sees you as insensitive and that maybe true.

Do not want for a relationship if you still can not afford the cost
--financial, emotional or physical (time wise).

Learn from this.

[candy_ytal]

Ok here's the thing.

Naa ko naka dungan ug take ug entrance exam sa isa ka sikat na skul sa cebu. nagkaila mi nya she lives a couple of kms ra away sa amoa. pero wala mi nagka close kaayo.
After 2 yrs nag ka communicate mi and she started telling na manglaag daw mi. since busy ko di kaayo ko kasabay but naka uban ko kausa.
After ato cge na ko niya hagdun adto sa ila dorm nya dungan na sad mi dinner.
Ni ana cya nako na naa daw cya na feel nako. I ddnt expect na ingato kay di man ko gwapo. poor ra sd ko. So ni thank you lang ko niya. For me, our friendship matters most.

The Twist.

After weeks na cge tambay sa ilang dorm, na ila2 nako iyang room8/classmate/close frnd. She was rare. First idol ra nako cya, until i got her number and we started talking bout things.
Na inlove ko niya and surprisingly, she felt the same way too. I even started changing myself since then. Nag work ko sa office sako tita, i dont drink too much anymore. i dont smoke anymore kay nahan ko na worthy sad ko e.love back. So mao to.

Ako gi storya akong friend na nagpa ila2 namo and told her everything. She reacted the way i dd not want to. I told her na single ko for 3 years and this was the time na seryoso ko sa babaii.
Pero di cya musugot magkauyab mi sa girl kay insensitive daw ko.

Though love namo ang usa't usa, we cant even see each other kay mahadlok akong girl na makit.an mi sa frnds sa iyang room8 na frnd niya. Ang labas, traydor cya, murag cyay nangilog. And she cant do that to her friend.

It's quite hard for me. Kay tagsa ra kay ko mahigugma, di pa jd pde.
But the girl told me na not now lang daw, let's wait for the right time. Nisabot ra ko and I said yes.
But on the process of waiting, naay ni diskarte sa akong girl.
DATO, CHUY pero di xa nahan kay chixboy daw nya kabuangan ra cya. BUT THEN, she told me na she's falling for him.

We don't see each other, We rarely txt kay busy cya. Mao ang laki na nidskarte niya, naa tanan time na mag uban cla. labi na kay nay awto.

It hurts even more. Kay slowly, im fading away from the page.
Ang guy og ako girl, cge na lag party nya mu uli akong girl tag 5am na.
Laki ko and khbaw ko unsa mabuhat sa laki when you're both drunk.




Im pissed. Luya kay ko. Tanan makatagbo nako na kaila, mu ask. "ok raka do? luya lagi ta ron?"
then i smile. fake.


saon na man ni oyyyy.
i dont know what to do. im not a fan of this, pero hey. CAn you help me with this?
wala lang ko ma storya pud.

Hi! hmmm....bittersweet...I can say that its bittersweet...bitter imong na feel karn but why don't you try to look at the other side of the coin? Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, you should be thankful. You should be thankful in a way na wlala pa gali na officially naging kamo...nakita na nimo iyang TRUE COLORS ug iyang weakness. Lalaki manjud ka...ganahan ka na madiscover nimo sa imong ma gf sa ngadto ngadto na humok siya ug ilong---meaning dali ra madani ug lain She's not worth it...I know its very hard..kay ni seryoso gud ka...and she's only playing with your emotions. But my friend....Always rise up each and every time you fall. It's never easy...struggle jud kaayo, but its the only way around. Life is beautiful my friend. Don't just focus on one side. Try the other side of life.Taas pa ayo ta ug agian sa kinabuhi, make the most of it. Above all, if you know how to worry...then you know how to meditate. Meditate on HIM(GOD) for HE deeply cares for you even the slightest details of your life. You don't need a monotonous prayer in order to hear you. All HE need is your honesty. Talk to him like your talking to your very close friend...He cares..He listens...He's real even if we can't see Him personally. GOD BLESS you my friend!

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

i suggest move on nlng ka bro...if love ka sa gurl, sensitive unta xa sa imong feelings...sa imong posts gud or sa gipangbuhat sa gurl ky murag wala xay paki sa imong na feel...

[master_s0n]

Move on bro, don't continue to linger and hope for something.

Its time for you to cheer up...