nakasuway namo ug na OUT OF LOVE mo sa inyong longtime partner?!!!!!!

[ain]

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9yrs nami sa akong BF karon.. and YES, nka try ko na nahulog ko sa lain guy, and mdyo feel nko nwala akong LOVE sa akong BF. Like uve said guyz nah morag ma divert sa lain.. It happen when our rel. became complicated, wherein wala au xa tie nko.... permi ko alkanse.. ako INLOVE au nya pero i felt na xa dli au inlove, sak2 lang.. So when we became complicated, ngka bulag jud mi kadali.. then na inlove ko sa osa ka MAN. But u know wat, i thought as in completely nko na fall out of love sa ako BF, pero beleb it or not, ang ending noh kay nisamot nuon akong LOVE sa akong BF.. mas ni strong...i tot na ibnlove ko sa NEW GUY. pero nibalik raman diay akong feelings sa akong REAL BF. hahayzz..... I dont think na kanang ma fall Out of LOVE kay completely... Maybe sa atoa lang ng tanaw.. pero wata kabalo sa ato real feelings jud...

[jdawn]

for me choice man guro na.. i think mag pa bilin man jud nang love bah but naa lng jud guro reason ang taw especially if he or she has decided to end a relationship (labi na long term). Five years mi sa ako ex, and love nko siya since the day we met. I've never seen it coming, ang among ending buh. Kuyog pa gani au mi ato .. tapos after ana na day kalit lng siya la na communicate and after pila ka days ingon siya “we're over”. Of kors ngta ko rison, na suko ko, na lagot, naka curse ko sa iya g buhat nako.. and etc. but eventually i learned to forgive and let go. Love man nako so mao iya kalipay then la nako mahimo anah. I even pray sa iya happiness. Now, naa pud ko lain ka relationship and unsa gani to result sa ako reflection sa amo relationship sa ako ex .. ako lng pud g apply and hoping na mao na ni siya para sa ako jud.

[paheng]

yup. kasuway ko ani.

[PipayNove]

it happend to me. supposedly 4th anniv namo last august ds year.
i honestly tried a lot of times jst to work out wid d relationshp kay masayangan jd ko sa time we'v bin together kung aq lng e broke.

he's a perfect gentleman,and i cudn't ask for more.. bt naabot jd ang tym na cge ko pangita bikil nya,i found myslf unhapppy being wid him waa,accordng pa sa ako sis if i love him i shudn't complain about hs attitude.nailhan xa nako sa pgka strikto ngano dw karon pa ko mo reklamo. and she told me maybe m fallng out of love na dw.den i startd to doubt na.....

i took all d advices from my family,relatives,frens,common frens,spiritual advisr... ug sa uban pa. hehe

bt n d end my heart speaks out..

[zyper_jag81]

di jud na malikayan.. labi ni kahibalo mo dala sa iyang self imong partner....

pa loshiang2x...hehehe

[wena]

pytera anang sugnuran ug balik oe. lisud na keu e sugnod ug balik bai ky ang kasing-kasing nako basa na keu d na gyud mo siga. uhuhuhu

anyway, ill try to have a relationship with a girl nga machallenge ko kanang ako gyud maggukod niya bah.

maybe the reason why napul-an na ka sa imong girl is because ur interested na wid someone else.. it would be better if ul juzt be honest wid her.. im sure mas maapreciate nya ang honesty nmo. mas au pa na nimo mismo magikan kaysa she'l just see u around hanging out wid someone else.. and im sori to say this but dili jud serte ang mapakaslan nimo na gurl unless ma overcome nimo imo pagkapul-anon.

[wena]

this is a very good eye opener sa mga taw nga mangita ug laing excitement tungod sa kadugayon sa relationship. ang atong true feelings matabunan man gud sa atong pagka adventurous. mangita tag excitement nga puede raman unta sa taw nga dugay na natong kaila. of course, heightened kaau ang excitement sa bag ong ka partner, but come to think of it, ang taw nga dugay na kaau natong kauban is someone who truly knows how we are, inside out. lisud ang bag o lang kay mangapkap pata ug unsay batasan. im not saying, go stick with a bad relationship that turned sour, what im saying, before jumping into the river, test the water first.

nyc one bro!

[micaijo]

.me & my partner have been together for 12 yrs already yet we're still not married but very happy and loving it. there NEVER was a time or a single moment that ive grown tired of her. In fact im always looking forward to spend my time with her whenever we separate ways for our daily jobs.

..our secret: being true to one's self, treat each other like the best friends then learn how to accept each other's flaws. understand your partners feelings and if needed humble yourself to give way to your partners tantrums so not to flare the issue.

just a piece of advice.

sakto jdu ni. I always throw tantrums to my partner and he always gives in. I feel guilty towards my actions. What i do is calm down. Say over and over to myself "ayaw palabi, lower ur pride" ana lng jud para dili mo dako ang issue. My partner and I are on our 8th year sa among relationship. And very happy kau ko. The spark is always there. If it doesn't then we try to bring it back by having time for each other. (ang kanidla kung mapalong pwede nimo ma sindihan ug balik, kung ma basa, imo lng paughon din lit it agen. If hurot na..you can still lit a new one and the relationship feels new agen. )

this is a very good eye opener sa mga taw nga mangita ug laing excitement tungod sa kadugayon sa relationship. ang atong true feelings matabunan man gud sa atong pagka adventurous. mangita tag excitement nga puede raman unta sa taw nga dugay na natong kaila. of course, heightened kaau ang excitement sa bag ong ka partner, but come to think of it, ang taw nga dugay na kaau natong kauban is someone who truly knows how we are, inside out. lisud ang bag o lang kay mangapkap pata ug unsay batasan. im not saying, go stick with a bad relationship that turned sour, what im saying, before jumping into the river, test the water first.

Ana jud. ayaw palabi sa imong gi bati dong. You will never know how much you love that person until he/she is not in your arms anymore. Basin magmahay ka. In the end you will realize that it was just a "glitch" (kung sa system pa).And kung gusto ka mo balik it will be too late kay naka move on na cya. Ayaw ka tintal sa ka nindot sa tubig, mo layat ka lng unya ala kay kalibutan kung unsa kalawmon. ikaw may paet.



OMOP: Give yourself a break first. Try to think it over. It would be best if both of you should talk about this matter. he or she has the right to know rather make him/her a fool of your relationship. It's unfair if only one is holding on to that relationship. Remember: IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO.

How about if you try to reminisce the times nga na nguyab ka pa niya. How she reacted and what your feelings were when you courted her. Think of the times when you wanted to show her off or impress her. Both of you rekindle the courtship period kay nindot mana nga mag talk mo bahin ana. Be like friends. Hang out together with your friends, be cheesy sumtyms, be open to any topics and kung bahin sa s3x...experiment. Very important in your relationship is to maintain friendship and respect. That is how you started before you were gf/bf. Give it a try and might work for you. Kay sa ako lng. I did sometimes feel to fall out of love. But always stick it to my mind. I can never find someone to replace him in my heart.

"DON'T LOVE A PERSON OUT OF PITY. BUT LOVE THE PERSON BECAUSE HE/SHE IS YOUR LIFE."

[cromagnon]

count me in.........