nakasuway namo ug na OUT OF LOVE mo sa inyong longtime partner?!!!!!!

[yvonne6]

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btaw... new lang me... sensya na...

btaw sa akoa nga part... niabot gyud ko ana nga na papas ako feelings sa ako gf.... then ang nakapait ana naa sa awahi ang pagbasol... kami sa ako gf new lang mi nag 6 yrs then nahanaw lang ug kalit... sala man sad to nako ngano nagbreak mi kay murag nakakita ko ug lain then akong feelings dayon na divert sa lain dayon mao mura rako ug wala... then karn na ang karma niabot na gyud.. sayang nalang ug pagbasol akong na feel karn kay nagbuwag naman sad mi sa akong previous gf nako... then ang reason kay taphaw rasad kaau.... mura gali ang karma nibaws gyud... sakit sad d ay f ikaw ang ingon anaon... samot na kaha sa if naabot mi ug 6 yrs sa ako previous.. ambot nalng....

motoo mo nga ang history will come back? hehehe ... kana lang sa... praktis lang.... enks

this is a very good eye opener sa mga taw nga mangita ug laing excitement tungod sa kadugayon sa relationship. ang atong true feelings matabunan man gud sa atong pagka adventurous. mangita tag excitement nga puede raman unta sa taw nga dugay na natong kaila. of course, heightened kaau ang excitement sa bag ong ka partner, but come to think of it, ang taw nga dugay na kaau natong kauban is someone who truly knows how we are, inside out. lisud ang bag o lang kay mangapkap pata ug unsay batasan. im not saying, go stick with a bad relationship that turned sour, what im saying, before jumping into the river, test the water first.

[paheng]

mao ni akong sitwasyon... pero la mi anang S** sa among relasyon sauna sa akong x.... tungod sa kadugay namo...6 yrs + nami..mura kalit lng pd nahanaw ang "spark (daw)".. ako man pd to giignan ako x b4 bout sa "nabugnaw" namo nga relasyon... pero wala ra man cya gbuhat.. ako pd..ako gtry ug revive ang feelings sa saunang panahon bah...pro d naman jud mabalik

mao to... ako cya gbuwagan...(evil au ko)...kay d na lagi ko happy nia... ako tan.aw nia kay mura nlang jud ug igsoon.. i know bad ako gbuhat..pero unfair man pd sa among 2 kung magpabilin mi ato nga relasyon.. hahayz... faet..

[PipayNove]

i mentioned this in a thread before and imma mention it to you know..

question.. do you think that married couples (esp those na over 25 years na) don't experience what you feel right now at some point of their marriage?

IMHO a good and LONG LASTING relationship is not based on the "SPARK" everyone talks about.. coz like a real spark, one moment its bright, then it is gone.. same goes with feelings.. feelings ra na sila.. they will eventually go away... what people need to realize that love is also a commitment..(my view dont have to believe me) and the definition of commitment doesnt contain any word "feelings".. when you love someone you love them because you choose to, not because you feel like you love them or you "feel the love"..

personally i believe love is a choice and a commitment.. not a feeling and a spark

lil saint,read this over and over again! i dnt need to speak out everything or 2 share my my overall concern about ur dilemma.. very well said and i totally conincide with jim's statement..

"love is indeed a choice and a commitment,,not a feeling and a spark.."


"feelings cud samtyms be d strong hold of satan,[temptation]bec we're weak wen it comes to our feelings.. my spiritual adviser once told me that, in decision making we shudn't consider our feelings but our commtment and knowledge with the issue.



God bless

[bby041609]

guys, nakasuway namo ug na OUT OF LOVE mo sa inyong longtime partner?!

honestly, niabot na gyud ko sa punto ana sauna nakong girlfriend, i really don't know whats the reason behind basta nikalit lang gyud ug ka hupas akong feelings niya. naluoy ko sa akong girlfriend ky love keu ko niya pero ako ky nagpahiyom nga wala nako ganahi or wala nakoy feelings niya. S3X nalang gyud ang gigukod nako sa among relationship. hehehe

unsaon man pagsulbad anang problemaha guys?! kuyawan man gud ko bacn mahog nako ug pul.anon ani sa girl. d nako ganahan makapasakit pa. nahan ko nga mo remain ang HOTNESS sa among relationship 'til death kung kinsa man gani tong swerte nga girl nga akong mapakaslan. **SIGH**

BADLY NEED YOUR OPINION GUYS!

hahaha...ako padung pag hupas ang akong feellings niya(sa akong partner)...
gamay na lang jud kaayo ug kuwang...hahaha
single nasad ko ani!!...kung mahitabo mn gani nah,
ako jud e enjoy pag au,hehe

[Lil' Saint]

hahaha...ako padung pag hupas ang akong feellings niya(sa akong partner)...
gamay na lang jud kaayo ug kuwang...hahaha
single nasad ko ani!!...kung mahitabo mn gani nah,
ako jud e enjoy pag au,hehe

ahhw. . mas maau d i tang e pares ma'am. hahaha

[Lil' Saint]

mao ni akong sitwasyon... pero la mi anang S** sa among relasyon sauna sa akong x.... tungod sa kadugay namo...6 yrs + nami..mura kalit lng pd nahanaw ang "spark (daw)".. ako man pd to giignan ako x b4 bout sa "nabugnaw" namo nga relasyon... pero wala ra man cya gbuhat.. ako pd..ako gtry ug revive ang feelings sa saunang panahon bah...pro d naman jud mabalik

mao to... ako cya gbuwagan...(evil au ko)...kay d na lagi ko happy nia... ako tan.aw nia kay mura nlang jud ug igsoon.. i know bad ako gbuhat..pero unfair man pd sa among 2 kung magpabilin mi ato nga relasyon.. hahayz... faet..

wow! impressive!

for 6 years plus walay nahitabo, OMG! kasakit sa PUS.ON ana oe. hahaha

[jencorp]

.me & my partner have been together for 12 yrs already yet we're still not married but very happy and loving it. there NEVER was a time or a single moment that ive grown tired of her. In fact im always looking forward to spend my time with her whenever we separate ways for our daily jobs.

..our secret: being true to one's self, treat each other like the best friends then learn how to accept each other's flaws. understand your partners feelings and if needed humble yourself to give way to your partners tantrums so not to flare the issue.

just a piece of advice.

[queenIESKY]

anah mn jud ng relationship aq gni long distance...twag,txt2> pro moavot jud ng
time nga sumhan nkah!!

pro og love nmo ang xa try lng nga mobalik inyong swetness syang pud lbaw nah if dgay nmo>>>.

[ashmae_01]

i had xpriencd dat too i had a bf 4 almost 4yrs. dn 1 day i jaz realzed dat im no longer nluv wd him mybe bec. he was very busy dat tym ky grad. cya nd ako i spent more tym wd my frnds dan him bt cya nluv ghapon cya wd me dt tym he kept on asking 4 a 2nd chnce na tarungon namu amu rlationship bt den wla nman jud koy luv 4 him or mybe naa gamay bt not enuf 4 me 2 acpt him back so i broke up wd him nd gt married krn.

cguro wer not meant 4 each othr lng jud ky 4 almost 4 yrs. being 2gder we've passed lots of trials na gud sa amu rlationshp nd close nami sa among mga fmilies dn kalit lng nwala akong luv nia nd na divert sa akong frnd (my hubby now) nd after 6mos. of being 2gder as partners we gt married.....nd now wer blessed wd a cute little girl na....

[eamarac]

hmmm uu, my boyfriend and i were together for more than a yr., things we're okay between us..and i never thought of leaving him. My family and friends liked him, it's just that sometimes i find the relationship sluggish,not romantic nor growing anymore and things were going like a habit. Until i met my future boyfriend,,it was odd but with that new guy everything felt great and exciting. i explained to my bf my situation and he set me free, he said he saw it coming because i was telling him stories about the guy,. I was so naive, little did i know that with each confession i make i was actually slowly breaking his heart into pieces. He said that he noticed the excitement in my eyes when i'm talking about the guy he said he doesn't want to admit so he tried to get things back to the way it was but now that i've finally admitted my feelings towards the other guy he said he accept his defeat and if that's what makes me happy then he'll step aside..his really nyc even to the very last, gud thing we're still friends, he now has a gf and they're bith happy..i hope..hahaha