Merged: All Love Stories

[khimmy]

if i were to react noh, unusual bya ang mga ing-ani nga SITUATIONS to guys lyk u, ang prob man gud is happy tuod ka at first but it turned out nga mas nigrabe imu love, in short, you got so carried away nga ingon pa nimo you started to do scary things, stalking is a crime bya, it may predispose you to harm anybody especially sa imu gf#2. if i were you try to be calm nalang jud and panguyabi xa in a sweeter way nga dili mkahadlok... try to win her trust back and give her the assurance nga ur serious this time, and you'll be focused na nia this time. good luck

[Shofu]

ako judni gi agwanta ug read.....letz jz put it ds way..u were not meant to be jud.....and yes "first love never dies"

[Monmyhand]

how touching a love story sis. coincidentally, i was listening to clayderman's "coup de couer" as i read your story, it helped me feel your emotion laden story of love. love the most potent of emotions, it can certainly overwhelm mere mortals. love is not to be found when you seek it, but love will find you. when it does, we have free will whatever our choices will be. or live the rest of our lives tormented with what ifs....

[vikkz]

Don't expect a woman to want to be with you if she's second best. Even though you're not with gf1, gf2 probably feels she's second best until now...and she probably tells herself...that if you could do that to gf1...then you can do it to her too...what's worse is that you already made her feel no.2 when you first got together.

But you know...only you can tell how she really feels about you until now...because you know her better than any1 else here. So, if you have any doubts about her still being inlove with you...then chances are you're instincts are right...so just leave her alone...damage has already been done. If you think otherwise...then you know na what to do...

With regards to being seloso...kasabot ko why you are like that...that's because you were/(are?) like that to gf1. Obviously, if you aren't/weren't the type of person to do such a thing...then you wouldn't doubt gf2 unta. Just because you are/were like that, doesn't mean she is also like that. So learn to trust her if magbalik mu or whoever it is you end up with next. Ofcourse gf2 probably went out with other guys...trying to get over you..(but it doesn't mean that women screw around- sometimes us women just want men to think so...para nay revenge sort of)...

[spartz]

Ofcourse gf2 probably went out with other guys...trying to get over you..(but it doesn't mean that women screw around- sometimes us women just want men to think so...para nay revenge sort of)...

more or less this is what happened, she was tired of me doubting if there was another guy, so when she finally got pissed of me stalking around, her barkadas made a plot and while i was stalking them, she kissed one of the guys, this is the part when almost all hell broke lose... until now, i still can't get that scene out of my mind, sometimes revenge would be such a great dish served to that guy

[vikkz]

Actually, I would have done the same thing. Is this girl the kaytee that's been posting threads here If she is, did you dump her or something like that?

[spartz]

hehe i haven't read kaytee's thread and rest assured that it's not her but thank you to all of you...i think this is what i really needed, other people's point of view that is not affected by the emotion that i feel...someone to tell me what is really logical

[beyee]

lesson learned... u can never have your cake and eat it too, TS..

my two cents... haven't you realized that you have become ur GF1 with ur GF2? and ur GF2 had become YOU in ur relationship, who stayed away from you coz u scared her which was exactly what you have described in ur relationship with GF1...

advice... keep a distance for months, clear ur head, reassess how u are when u are with her and without her, keep urself busy and most of all, have some respect for urself first and everything else will follow...

[spartz]

lesson learned... u can never have your cake and eat it too, TS..

my two cents... haven't you realized that you have become ur GF1 with ur GF2? and ur GF2 had become YOU in ur relationship, who stayed away from you coz u scared her which was exactly what you have described in ur relationship with GF1...

advice... keep a distance for months, clear ur head, reassess how u are when u are with her and without her, keep urself busy and most of all, have some respect for urself first and everything else will follow...

yes i have seen that, and sometimes i can't help but laugh with the irony...why the hell does that happen?

[vikkz]

hehe i haven't read kaytee's thread and rest assured that it's not her but thank you to all of you...i think this is what i really needed, other people's point of view that is not affected by the emotion that i feel...someone to tell me what is really logical

Good because somebody mentioned her. Anyways, everyone makes mistakes. Don't do it all over. Make things right this time, but don't push it. Give her time then and see how things go from there. If she's just not into you anymore...let go.