ang tinuod nga love is when u have battled the impossible already. this is the phase in your marriage that u r being tested. sa akong evaluation, dili lang kaau sweet imong bf which is mostly the case. sometimes when a man is super lambing and unusually sweet, there is something behind it. men have different ways of showing their love and affection. other men may not be as sweet, touchy and cuddly but they show their love by working very hard to prepare for your future or working very hard to buy u nice gifts or show your family how responsible person he is. dili tungod kay sweet kaau ang bf or hubby sa imong friends, they are luckier than you are. wala ka kahibalo kung unsa ilang problema. u dont know if the bf/hubby hits his girl when he is mad, walay nakahibalo, sila ra. wala ka ni mention kung naa bay lain imong hubby. mabaw ra kaau ang rason give up dayun ka. and considering, bag o pa lang mo mag asawa. it is also a factor that u r liking someone else, this will blind you and will not encourage you to work on your marriage. it will only encourage you to no like him the more. its possible that your foreigner friend sees this as something not so nice. bisan kinsa na lalaki, kung minyo na ka, well, they might still go out with you, walay mobalibad sa grasya. but behind it, mag huna2 ang lalaki, unsa ni siya klase na girl, inspite of being married, still go out with someone else. try to work it out first, kung dili na madala, get an annulment or legal separation, then go from there