Unclear Triangle. HELP!

[luke0917]

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if u think he loves u then he will fight for u no matter what but on the contrary aren't u afraid that what if magkauyab mo den if magdugay pud mo pero wala na siyay love nimo d same situation nga inyong gibuhat karon sa iya gf .......... dili kaha ka masakitan pud......... we sometimes called that as karma..... if i were u let the time be the judge of ur untimely relationship....... hu knows ang girl na mismo ang makigbuwag kay naa na siya lain hihihhi diba ok ra??

den the more magkadugay kay the more magkadako ang pain..........we call that as mind torture and heart failure hihihih peace sis....

hahay, sakto jud kaayo ni. maau unta mahitabo ni ngadto sa akong ex..

[ashcries]

If you want a guilt free relationship, you should talk to the girl.
Basin diay giilad ra ka sa guy.
Basin gisakaysakayan lang ka.
Kahibaw siya nga nakagusto ka niya pero wala siyay plano mobuwag sa iyang girlfriend.

You should all lay your cards on the table.
But I think you are too young to have this relationship.
Focus on your schooling first.

By principle, its not good to have a boyfriend who already has a girlfriend.
Respect the girlfriend.
But if you want him badly, talk to the girl.
Ask her permission if you can.

My wife use to have a boyfriend.
He is a chinito and very gwapo.
But he is not into her.
So I ask him if kung pwede "ibalato" na lang niya nako iyang girlfriend.
Ok ra man sad siya. Daghan man sad siyag girlfriends nga mas gwapa.
Thats our story.

I don't think he's the type nga mag ilad2x...
I've known him for years na and my mother knows about the situation pud.
We go to the same church and our families know each other pud.
I don't think he is playing games with me kay if ever mao man gani he will never be able to show up at the church with a straight face.

I'm done with my schooling na.
I'm actually older than him. He actually goes for older girls. His girlfriend is older.
He's finishing college next month.

I do respect the girl. Mao bitaw i've seriously considered no longer talking to him or treating him the way we have been for the past months.
I don't think pud it's right to go and ask for permission from the girl. It would just complicate things even further. I think it's much better if they deal with their issues nga sila lang.

I'm not waiting pud nga they would finally break up so we would finally have a go with the relationship.
What I'm actually having trouble with is what we have right now because we perfectly get along. If naa man gani misunderstandings very minor ra gyud kaayo.
Dili pud ko ganahan nga ma-spoil ang among friendship.

[chocoholic.damsel]

girl i think, on my opinion.. stop lang sa cguro seeing him. if he truly has feelings for you let him be man enough to settle his issues first kay lisud kaau imo situation ikaw ang alkansi ana, mahug na ikaw ang other girl although tinud anay imo feelings toward sa iyaha, delicadeza nlang pd ba. doesn't mean that you will stop the friendship, it is already there nman, besides friendship is a very good foundation of a relationship. kay when all else fails in the relationship, the friendship still remains. you can still text and talk to him once in a while but i suggest, stop going out with him kung kamo ra duha. tell him nga if gusto pd d ay ka nya, then i settle nya ang closure nla sa iya uyab.. kay naa rba uban laki nganha nga maau kaau mohimo ug story.. ing ana jud ang reason if naa cla gnahan lain nga gurl ang reason kay dli na cla happy sa ila present relationship etc.. etc..

yes, this is right.. stop lang sa any means of commu sis, OK ra magtxt2x cguro but not to the point na 24/7 jud nga dili na mabutang ang phone.... kung kamu jud, love will have it's own way. risky man gud kaayo kung sige pa mo kita2x.. like what u said, paranoid mo basin makit-an moh.. no one want's to sabotage a relationship, right? and im very sure that's the last thing u want to do.. so to prevent anything to happen, stop lang sah. remember, PREVENTION is better than CURE..

hope this helps

[ashcries]

Thanks for the pieces of advice.

We plan to have a serious talk next week. We're both hoping and praying nga itugot unta Niya.

And I plan to point out some of the issues/ reactions/ comments shared by all of you.

Thanks again.