A hard headed boy, know how to solve his problem?

[kpz]

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dapat mu hunong gyud na cya ug sugal.. before ma solve na ang uban niya nga problema

[ronz_rodz]

First please don't listen to anyone who tells you to spank the boy. they don't know what they are talking about.it would send

him even worse into rebellion trust me on that one anyway you've tried it and it's not worked. I can tell he sees you as

someone to fight with honestly i sympathise i know how awful morning sickness is!

you need to maybe stop seeing your boy as someone to fight with. one thing don't ask him nicely three times to stop doing

something. If he's doing something unacceptable, pick him up and remove him from the situation.

It's a battle of wills so forget time out. You can avoid a tantrum that way by doing distruction on him, example just

point at the birds through the window.later you take him back to what he did wrong and you make a little game of showing him

what he should have done instead. if he's lashed out at you get him to kiss the hurt area better and if he does, you praise

him well.

keep in mind he will be watching and learning from everything you do so set him a good example by being calm and

gentle always. No toddler enjoys being strapped in a seat try and chat to him, distract him while you strap him in and make the journey a positive experience play nursery rhymes on the cd player and chat to him that way he's less likely to put up a

fight.

Only put him to bed when he is truly tired read a story then sit and hold him hand until he falls asleep. if he gets

out of bed you put him back in, you must be consistent on that don't give in once it will be hard but he'll get the

message. let him know you will stay with him but he must stay in bed. don't talk much perhaps just say sssh but nothing

else. try not to turn any situation into a battle if you want him to do something turn it into.