A hard headed boy, know how to solve his problem?

[mr_kyme]

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Common sad ni cya na problem..

Now he is a half American boy, he was adopted by my
boss and have a chance to work in the office.
Ang problem niya ky its all about his family.
Basically ang iyang parents ky d na mo support niya ky
dna mtrust niya. I think nstop na cguro ni cya ug school pud.
Now i can see him why ngano na ig-ani iya life. Base lang ni sa
akong na observe niya.
Kani man gud cya ky cge ug adto sa Poker Forum cge duwa ug
Poker, and now i think all his money and allowance ky na adto
ra sa sugal. And plus wla na klaro ang studies. Cguro pud bati
na kaau ug record and cge pa ga balik2x sa yr level.
So off course ni react na ang parents and ga duda na niya.
Cguro Spoilled pud niya cya before maybe na anad ncya and
gipa daun na niya iyang career na mag bugoy2x .

Pero anyhow, karun ky iyang parents or Papa niya ky na pungot or
na asar na niya ky he always got a bad record on his studies and
Wala pa claro ky tig dugay na mo uli or it always bring a trouble.
Basically iyang parents ky dugay2x na ga agwanta sa iyang mga
agi according sa katong ipang share ang iyang trouble or problem
before from his parents, I mean sauna ky cge ni cge ug share smga problems
na unsay mahitabo sa ilang balay. Dugay2x na gyud ko mag cge
ka dungog na pirmi ma involve ug kasaba from his Parents.
Pero padayun lang gi hapon cya pagka bugoy2x.
Now karun ky na abot na ang time na gipa layas na cya and cguro pud
wla na ka agwanta iyang parents niya. Basin cguro na his parents
want him to learn a lesson, want him to survive and find his own money.

Now he run away to our boss and tell his story. Naka dungog ko sa gipa
nabi sa iyang trouble. He said na gipa layas nadaw cya & his no where to
go. He also state na iya daw money para school ky gigamit sa iyang papa.
Everytime na mangayo cya, d ncya tagaan cguro pd tungod pd sa iyang
pagka darkside.
So mao to, he share his stories and tell our boss so many words from his parents,
murag sko paminaw nahimo na ug kontra ang iyang parents after all he said
so many bad things about his parents. I dont know kun kinsa gyud sayop pud.
Now karun dungog kaau cya sa among office and known kaau cya ky hehe
daghan man sad gud na hinayang niya ky ga binoang cya then sayang iyang
pag escoyla labi na medyo anak siya smay kaya na family. So sayang pud ky
anak cya smay kaya na family. I mean mka afford sila everythng.

Ang problem niya ky naa man gud cya pride and tanan ang naa sa iyang thoughts
ky korek and matumanonon gyud. D pud magpa alakansi everytime na kta cya
ug ka encounter or some lalis2x.

So kun kamo cya w/ his attitude, unsa may way na ma solve ang problem
sa iyang situation niya na after all gipa layas siya.

[j.alob]

sa pag kakaron maka sulti ko nga dli gyud ni siya mo prosper...kung ing ana iyang batasan.

pde sad if sa karon nga panahon maka realize siya nga sayup na d i nang dalan iyang gi agian.
maka sulti ta ug ing ana if mawala na iyang bisyo...

if padayon lang gani gihapon... He is a Loser.

hehe pasalamat ra sad ko natawo ko sa pobreng kahoy
ky naka huna huna ko unsa jud d i ning kalibotana.

most raba sa mga rich sa ilang downfall lisod na kaau maka bangon..samot nag spoiled

[KASAAC]

Iya na nang probs wui....

[j.alob]

Iya na nang probs wui....

hahaha dakol man...

tabangan sad nato ning ilang problema bah.. hehehe kill the time..

[pael85]

ana jud nang mga taw na ma pride..... cguro siya ray makasulbad ana

[GOthique]

+++ nay! he should stand on his own...

[kenjie86]

Mao jud... dli man kaha pa tambag?

[mr_kyme]

ana jud nang mga taw na ma pride..... cguro siya ray makasulbad ana

I ask him one time "ngano nahan man cya cge sugal and do u like na mahutdan
nka money?" And he said, "Daghan daw daw na assenso sa glumbing dependi rana
pagdala. I jst cant name one ky daghan kaau. And heoff course they will not expose
their name daw ky for security reasons" Then hehe i said what ever hehehe

unsaon na kaha nang ig anang life tyle. Kun kamo cya usa man inyo buhaton?

[Soul Doctor]

Gambling is addictive.
So probably he is addicted to gambling.
And when you are an addict you do everything to satisfy your addiction.
You steal, lie, sell whatever you can find to have money for gambling.

Usually you lose you sense of perspective.
When you are hooked to gambling, its all you think about.

I was this hooked once.
I play mah jong and was addicted to it.
I thought I was naturally lucky person.
I had winning streak for four days.

Then I got addicted to this vice.
We could play for 2 days straight.
My opponents brought towels, toothbrush, pajamas etc.
I forget about my wife and kid.
I did not care for them anymore.
All I could think of is play mahjong.
And when I'm home and not playing mahjong.
It seems that I can hear the crackling of the mahjong pieces.
And when I have no money for mahjong,
I stole (for the first time) from my wife's wallet.
It was a very dark part of my life for me.

Then I realized to myself
that my opponents were all old men and women.
They have no life anymore.
I was 27 years old.
I have a life ahead of me.
Why will I waste my time on this activity that old people play?

So I decided to quit.

[j.alob]

/\ good and nice story...

ayaw gyud pa gamos.. ehhe na ngamong ra nang mga walay pangandoy