oftentimes if you decide by the basis of your emotion you will be clouded by good ideas.sometimes we need to pull back in order to recharge and rethink what is best for both of you.because if someone is not happy anymore in the relationship and you've already done your part to patch things up and still did not work i think its time to give your self a break focus your energy on other things para ma divert your attention.just know this both of you deserve to be happy in any way possible maybe not with each other but along the way you will find you happiness in other things or in someonelse