My married friend gets a divorce since she just had a baby with a gay guy

[ellehpo28]

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my oh my!

So you're being blackmailed na by the ex hubby ng friend mo becoz your friend told him something nasty about another guy in the past.

You're in trouble, lady. Better tell your husband about that immediately. I mean the harrassment that you just got from the bastard. Correct me if I'm wrong, I assume that you are married to a foreigner, right?

Get rid of the child as soon as possible but I don't mean just dump him anywhere. Bring the child to an institution immediately and tell the authorities the whole story. I could smell something fishy. Are you sure that your friend is not plotting anything against you with the help of her ex? uh, uh! Be careful.

That child is source of all your problems. Then get rid of him. Not that I don't have compassion for the child. If your friend doesn't want her child to be adopted by other people but you and she said she will get the baby back, then I am sure that there are charitable institution that will take the baby in. But it should be the mother who will bring the child there and she has to talk with the personnel-in-charge of her plan to get her back in the near future.

Please, save yourself and your own family from trouble. You have to act now and quick.

[nitwit]

my oh my!

So you're being blackmailed na by the ex hubby ng friend mo becoz your friend told him something nasty about another guy in the past.

You're in trouble, lady. Better tell your husband about that immediately. I mean the harrassment that you just got from the bastard. Correct me if I'm wrong, I assume that you are married to a foreigner, right?

Get rid of the child as soon as possible but I don't mean just dump him anywhere. Bring the child to an institution immediately and tell the authorities the whole story. I could smell something fishy. Are you sure that your friend is not plotting anything against you with the help of her ex? uh, uh! Be careful.

That child is source of all your problems. Then get rid of him. Not that I don't have compassion for the child. If your friend doesn't want her child to be adopted by other people but you and she said she will get the baby back, then I am sure that there are charitable institution that will take the baby in. But it should be the mother who will bring the child there and she has to talk with the personnel-in-charge of her plan to get her back in the near future.

Please, save yourself and your own family from trouble. You have to act now and quick.

as far as i can remember sis i didnt do anything, i remained faithful to my husband infact wherever i go for a coffee with that guy,i always take her with me that way no one would think that im playing up. i dont know what she told her husband and as if i care. my conscience is clear and i got nothing to hide and thats what i told my husband. and yes im married to a foreigner.

im gonna take ur advice, i dont wanna get into further troubles. i have enough, im trying to help yet this is what i am getting. not fair.

so im gonna contact her asap and give her back her baby and live life peacefully again.

[nitwit]

And let me get this straight... you so called friend banged an unmanly dude and gets preggy, but is to much of an ahole to take responsibility of her pagkabiga. and now she is dumping her problems on you? some friend that is, with friends like that... who needs enemies o_O

im not the type who judge people sir. i see both sides and the hubby had his fault too. but anyways its not my bizo so id rather leave it there and do what i can to help her out. thats the least thing i can do right?instead of blaming her and making her guilty of what she did, she already lost her family and she got nowhere to go?what do u want me to do?say no to her?

she is close to suicide at this stage of her life cause she cant get a job and doesnt have money. instead of pushing her away like everyone else's did,im trying to do my best as a friend to be there for her even though i know what she did is wrong but i dont have the right to criticize her since im not in her shoe.

[Soul Doctor]

i wanted to pass the baby to its father,im sure he can take care of her.i told my friend about it and she refused cause the dad has a live in partner and she doesnt want to complicate his life..i really wanted to tell her that she is already complicating mine but cant, i know she has no one to turn to aside from me and her gay friend, if i despise her, the more she is gonna feel unwanted, she is already devastated and as in totally wreck, i cant neglect her, she's still my kababayan..not this time.

but what about my family?

You see---
how women makes mistakes when they are far away from their own place!
I think she should go home (Philippines) with her baby.
Its the only way.
If you want to help, help her get home.
Its the only way she'll learn her lesson.

I think its an eye opener for you too.
Same thing would have happened to you,
if you were not thinking straight.

[inc-pankz]

daoyyyyy. . ngano man sad ni enter. . nya bayot pajud ang nka buntis?

[nitwit]

daoyyyyy. . ngano man sad ni enter. . nya bayot pajud ang nka buntis?

yes sir but they were both drunk that night and she is remorseful.too bad she cant undo it anymore

[pOt`pOt]

ahahaha!! na unsa man intawn ni uy... .. .

[8_cRawlin_baby_8]

You see---
how women makes mistakes when they are far away from their own place!
I think she should go home (Philippines) with her baby.
Its the only way.
If you want to help, help her get home.
Its the only way she'll learn her lesson.

i think this is the best you can do both for the baby and your friend.

papaulia sya diri Pinas. tagai pamilite. imong nang fren bahala diri mag unsa sya.
ibilin ba niya ang bata sa iyang mga paryente.

magkadugay nang bata diha sa imo, magka complicate pud imong life.

[noelkimy]

i think if ur hubby doestnt want to adopt one,then dnt do it nlng. it myt cause a prob sa imu family. thats ur frens problem na. if cge ka save iya prob,mayb magsalig na xa. she can work and find ways 2 raise d child up since she started d prob. think of ur own family usa.

[nitwit]

i told her to go back to phil. but she said never she will go back there again unless if she makes a million already. i've been enouraging her to just go back cause she cant make it here and its gonna be more complicated but she insisted that she is staying here.

she said if she cant make a living here, how much more in philippines?and she doesnt want people there to know about what happened.

i still have the baby guys, and its getting 3 weeks now. and i feel like my eyes are dropping.i didnt get to have a good rest this past weeks.