
Originally Posted by
jimmy128
nyaks... what a question... if you people think like this all the time then i would not be surprised if ever you guys get married and it wouldn't last very long...
love is not a feeling.. it is a choice.. a choice made by 2 people every single day, it is a commitment.. meaning even if the circumstances are not in your favor you still pursue it because you are committed to it....
you think married couples who last for 25 years are "inlove" the whole time? coz being in love is an involuntary reaction.. its the high that you feel when you are loving someone.. but i tell you the feeling will inevitably subside and go away over time (syaro dili sad mo ma pul-an)
loving on the other hand like i stated kanina is a choice.. something that you have to choose everyday..
today i choose to lover her coz im committed to her..or, ay murag dili na nako feel mu love aning bayhana.. pero sigi lang love gihapon ni nako siya coz im committed to her..
that is how most married couples are today.. the "SPARK" that was there when they were younger is gone, but still they CHOOSE to love each other why? coz it is a CHOICE that they made on the day of their wedding to love each other til death..
i would like to repeat it
Love is not a feeling, it is a CHOICE and a COMMITMENT that must be fought for every single day..
*drops 2 cents