
its all up to the person ra jud, whether he/she wanted to change or not.. no one else can force someone to change.. and yes, i agree that people do change...there are a lot of factors that can make someone totally change, maybe experiences, environment, maturity level, etc... but if ang taw kay closed-minded, aww bisan unsaon pa niya, way mahitabo niya, he or she'll be the same forever..hehehe.
ug uyab pa, it's always the best foot forward...inig ka minyo, mugawas na ang sungay. change? eventually....I know a lot of people whose husbands are the worst siguro....but na usab....maybe muabot rajud ang panahon.
inig pray nimo ni Lord for that person to change and wa gyud gihapon na usab, basin naay reason si Lord nimo. feeling nimo nga murag ikaw na ang pinakamalas nga tawo sa world since you are living with someone or having a relationship with someone nga way ayo, naa reason behind ana. Maybe gi strengthen paka mao na nga naa gihapon ka ana nga relationship or gi train paka para mas mutaas pa imo patience. never give up.....muabot ra na nga time.....not now....but eventually, it will....
and you can never ask a person to change.....bisag muhilak paka ug dugo.....if sya mismo di ganahan ma usab....wa gyud kay mahimo..
Last edited by T0xic; 06-28-2009 at 08:42 PM.
pahabol....
pasagdahi nalang na sya ug unsa iyang buhaton....easier said than done, but this is the only way nga ma lessen sad ang stress on your part. Kay if sige ka konsomisyon kay nganu wa gihapon nag usab imong partner, mag una paka ug kamatay ana niya. Muabot ra nang time nga ug unsa man gani iyang binuhatan then naay mahitabo niya, unya napahamak sya, maka huna huna ra na sya nga sayup diay iyang gi buhat. worst comes to worst, tell that person, " I already told you before, but you didn't listen". in the end di gyud ka ma konsensya kay in the first place, wa man ka nag kuwang ug remind niya.![]()

para nako maski unsa kabati sa kina iya og batasan sa taw. ma change na. naa rana niya kung gusto niya mag bag o.
people do change jud..
wla man cguro tao nga nagpabilin pagkabata...

pero usahay makasapot sa...
you only want whats best for that person...unya usahay ikaw pa ang mangil-ad.
ingon pa sad sa akong friend...
you can't impose your beliefs on anyone.
you can only hope to influence them.
yes, people do change..ako mismo na change ko, and aware ko bout it
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