^^basin taas ra pud kag expectations sa imong anak sir? most of the time it takes its toll specially if dili kaya
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06-27-2009, 01:33 AM #21
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06-27-2009, 01:33 AM #22well... in a relationship dapat kbaw sad ang parents who the guy really is...
Originally Posted by Soul Doctor
top 10 lagi ang daughter and tarong kaayo
pero ang iyang bf kai nag-kiat2x ra sad..
then dapat na mu-intervene ang parents in that matter..
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06-27-2009, 01:52 AM #23I think children should learn to be teachable. Originally Posted by jadestoner
It's too bad mine was unteachable.
Unteachable kids only learn from experience.
But it is the hard lessons in life they can learn.
And mostly, they learn too late.
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06-27-2009, 01:59 AM #24mao na isa ka problem with having teenagers, they think they're very smart Originally Posted by Soul Doctor
pero kana experience, mas maayo na nga teacher compared sa parents. kana kay way lain mabasol ila ra jud kaugalingon. all we can do is to reach out and support them.
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06-27-2009, 02:01 AM #25
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as a son and hopefully a future father i agree with you sir...
sometimes sons/daughters really don't see the effort their parents do just to make them see that everything they do are for their own future.
even if children think that their parents are at times wrong about some decisions (nobody is perfect), they still need to see that their parents only want the best for them...Last edited by jadestoner; 06-27-2009 at 02:02 AM. Reason: typo
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06-27-2009, 02:04 AM #26Taas ba expectations ang parents nimo, Maam? Originally Posted by babypaupau
What happened to you?
I bet you did not listen to your parents right?
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06-27-2009, 02:06 AM #27If you see your child is very responsible, Originally Posted by jadestoner
expectedly, she too, is responsible in choosing her boyfriend.
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06-27-2009, 02:18 AM #28
not really, i was doing quite well in school. wala man problema akong parents nko, im not a problem child per se. i belong to the top in the class, was in the varsity, and involved in many school activities
just so happen, na kutaw mi tanan pag buwag sa akong mom and dad. i have a happy child hood, both my parents are loving and very accomodating to us, children. basically we're great, a happy family. it turned out, my dad was on to something and naay thirdparty. my mom couldnt take it any longer so they decided to go their separate ways. we had to move here sa cebu and start from scratch. as in zero. all the comforts that i grew up with disappeared in a snap. all that happened while i was growing up... 12 man yta ko ato. so we struggled for the next years. and so did i, il say i was lost and was very confused. i was very close to my dad so my initial reaction to what was happening was hate. i hated my mom because i always blamed her for causing my dad to leave. (wc is not the case man diay)... so i guess i was searching for myself and my dad in all the people that i meet.
so katong time na nakaila nako akong ex, i felt loved (wc i craved then) and to make the long story short...mao na to nahappen. i guess nabag ohan ko. i had a hard time coping, specially na my mom was very busy trying to make ends meet wala na sya time mu atiman namo like before. so the instant na naay na abot who put me on a pedestal, na hug jud nuon ko sa bulsa. i was so weak and vulnerable so i took the bait.
abi nako ato nga time nga sya na jud akong ghuwat... di diay to. looking back, maka ingon jud ko nga nagtanga lng akong agi.
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06-27-2009, 02:29 AM #29It could have been easier Originally Posted by babypaupau
not really, i was doing quite well in school. wala man problema akong parents nko, im not a problem child per se. i belong to the top in the class, was in the varsity, and involved in many school activities
just so happen, na kutaw mi tanan pag buwag sa akong mom and dad. i have a happy child hood, both my parents are loving and very accomodating to us, children. basically we're great, a happy family. it turned out, my dad was on to something and naay thirdparty. my mom couldnt take it any longer so they decided to go their separate ways. we had to move here sa cebu and start from scratch. as in zero. all the comforts that i grew up with disappeared in a snap. all that happened while i was growing up... 12 man yta ko ato. so we struggled for the next years. and so did i, il say i was lost and was very confused. i was very close to my dad so my initial reaction to what was happening was hate. i hated my mom because i always blamed her for causing my dad to leave. (wc is not the case man diay)... so i guess i was searching for myself and my dad in all the people that i meet.
so katong time na nakaila nako akong ex, i felt loved (wc i craved then) and to make the long story short...mao na to nahappen. i guess nabag ohan ko. i had a hard time coping, specially na my mom was very busy trying to make ends meet wala na sya time mu atiman namo like before. so the instant na naay na abot who put me on a pedestal, na hug jud nuon ko sa bulsa. i was so weak and vulnerable so i took the bait. abi nako ato nga time nga sya na jud akong ghuwat... di diay to. looking back, maka ingon jud ko nga nagtanga lng akong agi.
if you learned from your parents mistakes
rather than making your own-- just to learn, right?
But this story is common.
The excuses varies.
But my point is, can daughters not learn from the people around them?
You can see teenage pregnancies around.
Relatives, friends, classmates...Can you not learn from it?
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06-27-2009, 02:56 AM #30
ur not a girl so obviously you dont know how a girl's emotion can affect their way of thinking and judgement. imagine a 13 yr old girl who grew up in a sheltered and loving family, all so suddenly lose everything that means life to her- family, education, friends, comfort. how can she, in her naivety and vulnerability, think of consequences when all she can think of is how to stay sane amidst everything that's happened? this is not an excuse as i take full responsibility for what happened to me. but i am not alone in this world, daghan babae karon who is going thru the same trauma. what you're saying, "can you not learn from it" is far from possible in cases such as these.
you definitely have high expectations...just remember not all people are as strong as you. what happened to me years back taught me alot of things, things i never would have known without that experience. it got me to where i am now, to a much better and secure place. because it taught me to be strong and to fight. so what did i lose? nothing compared to what i gained. so why judge? besides, its not urs for the taking
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