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[kornyedison_143]

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Hi boss soul doctor... do you think it would be too early if 2 people marry each other... even they were just bf/gf for less than 3months... both of them known each other already for quite sometime now but as friends... but they decided to take their relationship to the next step which worked out really well so far... but now because they're so into each other and so inlove that the next logical step is marriage because they don't want to be apart any longer...

[beyee]

Hi doc,

Can a very shy person in her thirties find someone or love for that matter? Even if she's typically a home-work-home kind of girl?

[Soul Doctor]

just want to ask whats the difference between love and affection?

To an artist like me----
affection is like a sketch.
love is the whole finished painting.

[Soul Doctor]

Hi boss soul doctor... do you think it would be too early if 2 people marry each other... even they were just bf/gf for less than 3months... both of them known each other already for quite sometime now but as friends... but they decided to take their relationship to the next step which worked out really well so far... but now because they're so into each other and so inlove that the next logical step is marriage because they don't want to be apart any longer...

As long as you are mature enough, why not.
Its not the length of time you spent with each other that counts.
Its the quality of that time you spent together.
I assumed you have pretty quality time together
since you decided to take it to the next level.

Here's more tip:
1.) know your in-laws first. this is very important!
(trust me on this one).
2.) You must be financially free and ready.
meaning no family members to support.
If you have to support a family member or family members--
-- you should reconsider your relationship first.
If you are both free,---
Make sure that---your combined income should not be less than P10t a month.
or it should more than P15t a month if you want to have a baby right away.
3.) It would really do well if you both are at the same intellectual level.
It is a bad idea for an average IQ girl to go for the high IQ guy.
Average IQ girl for average IQ guy. High IQ girl for high IQ guy.
4.) Know each others values, moral, religious etc.
5.) make sure he is already emotionally stable.
Watch out for fatherless boys or girls(I should know, I'm one of them {and no offense guys}).
Because, they usually are not that emotionally stable.
They tend to sabotage their own selves.
Even when things are going well for them.

[Soul Doctor]

Hi doc,

Can a very shy person in her thirties find someone or love for that matter? Even if she's typically a home-work-home kind of girl?

Yes she can.
But she could have more help if she want to find it right away.
Join speed dating. Enter dating forum. Make some effort. Life is short they say.

Don't be too shy.
You must make yourself shine for men to notice you.
It's ok to brag about your accomplishment in your work.
It's ok to show your intelligence.
Start by writing about yourself here.

There are a lot of available men here in this forum.
I know they will PM you after this post.

[kornyedison_143]

As long as you are mature enough, why not.
Its not the length of time you spent with each other that counts.
Its the quality of that time you spent together.
I assumed you have pretty quality time together
since you decided to take it to the next level.

Here's more tip:
1.) know your in-laws first. this is very important!
(trust me on this one).
2.) You must be financially free and ready.
meaning no family members to support.
If you have to support a family member or family members--
-- you should reconsider your relationship first.
If you are both free,---
Make sure that---your combined income should not be less than P10t a month.
or it should more than P15t a month if you want to have a baby right away.
3.) It would really do well if you both are at the same intellectual level.
It is a bad idea for an average IQ girl to go for the high IQ guy.
Average IQ girl for average IQ guy. High IQ girl for high IQ guy.
4.) Know each others values, moral, religious etc.
5.) make sure he is already emotionally stable.
Watch out for fatherless boys or girls(I should know, I'm one of them {and no offense guys}).
Because, they usually are not that emotionally stable.
They tend to sabotage their own selves.
Even when things are going well for them.

thanks doc... i think we hit 1, 3, 4 and 5... i will discuss this with my partner and see where this goes...

[Soul Doctor]

thanks doc... i think we hit 1, 3, 4 and 5... i will discuss this with my partner and see where this goes...

Good Luck to you guys!

[kenjie86]

There is no way to know other than to wait till you are mature enough.
You have to be old enough to realize that you have that sexuality aspect.

But if you don't believe in sexuality aspects of your soul concept
then we just proceed with the understanding of the other factors.

In your case, it depends again on the way your sisters and mother behaves.
If as a child you see your mother as the stronger and more dominant parent,
then will want to be a woman because you see the power in being a woman.

If one of your sister is dominant and controlling,
then, it doubles the possibility of you becoming gay.

Thanks bro...

Yoroshiku Onegaishimasu.

[beyee]

thnx doc

[jrvillacortz]

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