How to Make Her Fall in Love with You

[coolguyiam20]

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hints from a girl:

1. some girls hate OVER SERIOUS guys nor OVER KINKOY nga guys... it pays nga normal ra ka nga tao... hehehe

2. some girls like to be praised HONESTLY.

3. it pays to be generous bisan man lang pan sa julies.... hehehehe

4. HANGIN nga guys are a huge no no...

5. it pays to have a hobby like basketball or anything that involves music... ^_^

kahibaw lang mo aning mga simple rules, then you guys will be fine...

nah..kasagaran rba og basketball player kay chck boy..ehheheh..
ang problema kay d lng ko khbw mbasket..ehheheh...pwde taekwondo or mma nlng..ehhehe

[simoncpu]

- Don't try to impress a girl.
- Don't praise a girl. Don't put her in the pedestal, even if she looks like Anne Curtis or Megan Fox.
- Don't put yourself below her level. Don't put yourself above her level*. You must be on an equal footing. Equal respect.
- Don't give a *bleeeeeep* about the world.
- Don't try to be an extrovert if you are an introvert.
- Don't try to act mysterious if you are an extrovert.
- Don't listen to women's advice on courtship. They say this and that, but act differently in real life. Don't listen to guys who are as frustrated as you. The best advice comes from observing people.


* This is ok, but Machiavellian techniques are only for psychos.

[izelou]

Hi Friends,

Here are some tips to impress a girl and make her fall in love with you.

1. Talk to her.
2. Make her to notice you.
3. Be confident.
4. Give her the respect
5. Be chivalrous
6. Give her a helping hand.

For more information-----Tips to impress girl and Make her fall in Love with You.

Wa pulos ni nga advice. Kung ako inganion ko sa lake bastiron nko. Pulpol ra ang muhimo ani labi nang number 2.

[ritchepaul]

Bro, I read the link you posted...most of the advice is a sure way ticket to heartache land. Experiment gani, follow most of that advice and surely masakitan kalang. In the end bitaw, a lot of women would say "I'm not worthy for you" or "I only like you as a friend" and list goes on.

As posted sa link:
(10. Propose her. Now, if she has already come with you for couple of dates and outings then you should try out by proposing her. Buy a red rose and then simply write a note on it mentioning “I Love You.” I think women like it simple and sober, so be particular about the point. This is the best thing.) <-------What if the girl is not yet ready sa imong proposal? This is NOT the best thing, trust me on this.

Take note sa statement nga "come with you for couple of dates and outings then you should try out by proposing her"...this would only work due to certain circumstances like if the girl duna na feelings sa imo before pa nimo siya na-meet or supercrush ka na niya.

But then again, proposing to a girl waaaay too early is bad and evil for your health (kay after ka ma-busted ani....kung gainom ka sure kaayo mga elite drinking team naman imong mga kauban).

Although good tip man ang uban nga naa didto sa link like dress neatly (ofcourse kailangan ni siya)...you need to learn the how women's attraction works.

As what our fellow istoryan posted here in your thread "Attraction isn't a choice"

[ritchepaul]

I'm going to post something here from a certain author regarding dating and courtship.

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A Nice Guy

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple…

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.




MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince Her To Like You"

What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like… but she's just not interested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.




MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission

In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.

Don't get me wrong here.

You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…




MISTAKE #4: Trying To Buy Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It's only NATURAL when this happens…

That's right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.




MISTAKE #5: Sharing How You Feel Too Early In The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.

An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can't control themselves.

Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.




MISTAKE #6: Not Getting How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.


You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how…



MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks

One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started… because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age.


And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly,you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.




MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

Another bad idea…

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren't attracted to Wussies!




MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women

Now I'm going to blow your mind…

A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything.

If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.




MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

*Ofcourse if you ask help from a wrong source, your relationship status could get sour rather than sweet. If you're lucky enough to pull that off with the wrong advice...ok ra man kaha nimo nga sweet and sour inyong relationship? LOL!*

[kenjie86]

All you have to do is find out what she likes. For example, hobbies, her fav color, or even maybe what she looks for in a guy. And here is a little tip, you don't have to spend a ton of money on impressing a girl! But if she is still with her boyfriend, you can move on. Hope this helps and good luck!

[caldwellsteve37]

Bro, I read the link you posted...most of the advice is a sure way ticket to heartache land. Experiment gani, follow most of that advice and surely masakitan kalang. In the end bitaw, a lot of women would say "I'm not worthy for you" or "I only like you as a friend" and list goes on.

As posted sa link:
(10. Propose her. Now, if she has already come with you for couple of dates and outings then you should try out by proposing her. Buy a red rose and then simply write a note on it mentioning “I Love You.” I think women like it simple and sober, so be particular about the point. This is the best thing.) <-------What if the girl is not yet ready sa imong proposal? This is NOT the best thing, trust me on this.

Take note sa statement nga "come with you for couple of dates and outings then you should try out by proposing her"...this would only work due to certain circumstances like if the girl duna na feelings sa imo before pa nimo siya na-meet or supercrush ka na niya.

But then again, proposing to a girl waaaay too early is bad and evil for your health (kay after ka ma-busted ani....kung gainom ka sure kaayo mga elite drinking team naman imong mga kauban).

Although good tip man ang uban nga naa didto sa link like dress neatly (ofcourse kailangan ni siya)...you need to learn the how women's attraction works.

As what our fellow istoryan posted here in your thread "Attraction isn't a choice"

I have just written the common things and there are always exceptions like you have mentioned. I would like to tell you that your advice is good and would be adding them while writing an another article. Also the another post you have added is good one.

I would like to mention that every girl is different, you need to do some slight changes while impressing them, but the basics are same.

I would also like to mention that you don't agree with the point that good dressing is not important.

I believe and stand by my words that being well dressed is an important point because women pay a lot of attention to these things. But, we all have our own views and we are here to share them. So, it was nice that I got some things to learn from you.

[charles of lawaan]

learn how to make woman laugh.......

[vahnhelsing]

be yourself....dats all..

[ritchepaul]

I would also like to mention that you don't agree with the point that good dressing is not important.

I believe and stand by my words that being well dressed is an important point because women pay a lot of attention to these things

I don't disagree with regarding to dress Bro...in fact...it is important that you should dress neat. Yeah, women are very sensitive even unto the tiny details on our clothes. If you dress smart but your shoes are dirty...it would leave an impression to a girl.

Women are subtle. They read into things and try to tell you things indirectly. Women don’t generally take what you say at face value. They want to know what everything REALLY means.