lisod.... he needs to make a decision before you make one for yourself
lisod.... he needs to make a decision before you make one for yourself
its not your call sis to make the decision... ni take gud cya ug entrance exam sa seminaryo so it means importante sad na niya.... let him decide kay lisora anang laing tao pa desisyonon sa imo future oie... ingna lang cya watever iya decision, imo lang dawaton... mao ra jud na cya... dont make decisions for him, let him stand on his own ground. dha nmo mahibaw-an unsa ka lalaki ang laki(get it??).... ^_^
...don't decide for him...wat's the use of his brain kung di xia mo decide in his own..suportae lang xia kung asa xia malipay...bhalag sakit 4 u...kung mao jud na iya calling,..then be happy for him...ana nlng

imo nalang unta tong gipugngnan..the Lord loves you so he will understand you
You are too young to say that what u feel is really love so think hard and ask yourself. love can't be found with just a short time. you need to experience a lot(most likely pains) for you to understand what love really means.
Refocus your life. Like any other problems in life… after all the wallowing, you need to refocus your life. Take a deep breath and set your priorities… your family, friends, career and yourself. If you feel you need some counseling, perhaps attend a retreat, do so. It will give you a lot of time to think things over, until you can finally sleep soundly.
nyc na story by paulo coehlo sisthats was his book na i 1st read..
@TS: you just have to discern sis..you need enlightenment from above to make that decision coz c Lord nmn gud imu kahati..besides,if kamu jud,ihatag mana ni Lord balik nimu..siya sad dpat mismo kay mag discern and not to the point na mag agad siya sa imu decision..tinalaw mana iya style na ikw iya agdon...peace..hehehe..bt true...
di pud tingali ta mka sulti nga ang laki mgbasol kung onsa mahitabo... i think he's also confused sa onsa ya decision to make. thats y he needs also ur thinkiing. it was his dream to become a priest someday but by d time u were there with him he also rethinks n already got confused. he loves u n at d same time he loves his dream also. u can't blame him for that... no one is to blame to. though it hurts but its juz how things r.
yes u r right to step aside n let him continue his own journey but doesnt mean he doesn't need u anymore. b there for him all the time coz a man's dream to become a priest is something to be proud of. if u really love him then give ur support 100%. kung kamo jud then he will return to u, but just dont expect that. he still needs u as a friend n someone to lean on, though he may b a priest smeday yet he is still a man.
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