Break up, stand up, move on

[luke0917]

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BREAK UP!
Just recently got out from a relationship that’s been running for 4 years and seven months. The LoVE that i thought to be right suddenly doomed my entire life. Where did it go wrong? Since it was unanswered i have to END IT!

STAND UP!
I thought my life ended when I lost him. I don’t know where to go, and how to shift with everything i used to do. I felt that I was suffering from the gravest emotional pain that nobody ever encountered in their whole life, i thought it was only me. I definitely do not know how to divert myself from the reality of being lost without somebody to be with. And Oh my GOD i will give birth to our son soon and i am alone? Until, one time, a sudden realization came to me, the guy that I thought to be my only happiness doesn’t after all deserve everything I showed. All the care, concern, love, understanding, patience and kindness. In as much I don’t deserve a loser myself. It’s not my loss that I lost Him its HIS. haha! He can’t find somebody like me… I swear!


MOVE ON!
Here I am now, gradually adjusting to the real meaning of life. That it really is like this, at times we’re happy at times we’re hurt. Sometimes Up, sometime DOWN! As Alicia Keys would say "LIFE goes around, comes around, what goes up, must come down". I believe in time, all the pain that I felt because of what he did, will definitely go around him, even more than what I felt. Although we’re still friends right now but I just want him to learn. I am MOVING ON NOW. And finding myself crying no more… THANK GOD!

[LIBER777]

AKOY UNA

Bok-Es Iyang Kamot

Barog Patere sekare iyang nawng

OG

Lakaw


syaro balik pana imo uyab

[luke0917]

AKOY UNA

Bok-Es Iyang Kamot

Patere sekare iyang nawng

OG

Lakaw


syaro balik pana imo uyab

hahaha! korek jud...

[j()nz]

ana jud...be strong kay ikaw ray alkanse...hehehehe

[coolguyiam20]

hilo.e pra ka.usa ra..xaro lgi..ehehhehe..

[j()nz]

ayaw lang sad oi kay forever ka makonsyensya

[noigwen]

go!! go!! go!! hahaha..

[vahnhelsing]

Dats life just move on miss...... Someones better...

[kenjie86]

Play it cool. The first few months after a break up is usually spent, more likely, in explaining what went wrong to each and every friend of yours. Some would jump start talking trash about their exes, this is definitely not a way to deal with it. This will do nothing but harm to you and and your ex-boyfriend. It’s okay to say how you feel about it, but take some responsibility. Staying your lips tight will keep your name clear of drama.
Don’t play the victim. In the movies, women always tend to be wounded and helpless at the end of the relationship. A study was released by the American Psychological Association, stating that women are twice as likely to develop depression than men. For your own good, be strong and stay positive. Easier said than done? True, but feeling lonely and wishful thinking won’t take you a single step away from having a broken heart. Asking for sympathy just makes you more vulnerable. And the more vulnerable you are, the more you are to make bad decisions.
Work on you. After a break up we tend to wallow in our sorrows. It’s not bad, more so needed, for a certain period of time. You need to do your very best to get yourself together, stand up, and make your mum proud. Pamper yourself and live well. As Spock would always say, with split-finger: “Live long and prosper.”
Refocus your life. Like any other problems in life… after all the wallowing, you need to refocus your life. Take a deep breath and set your priorities… your family, friends, career and yourself. If you feel you need some counseling, perhaps attend a retreat, do so. It will give you a lot of time to think things over, until you can finally sleep soundly.
Break ups are optional. Many people break up and then they make up. The relationship became strong relationships, the second time around. It’s true, my own relationship is one living proof. Break ups are optional when you have the right information. Do you really want the relationship back? If so, there are ways, you just have to make it happen.
Moving on has stages and the journey to it is different for everyone. Some may race through stages that take others an age to pass through and some may choose to take the road less traveled. Asking why, how and what if — the plague of those kind of questions is certainly not the key to getting the closure you need and moving on after a break up.

[luke0917]

hahay...sakto jud ang post ni kenjie...

pro life goes on...