HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[kebot]

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the consequence of immaturity. You should have stayed single with kid. Either way gurl there will always a consequence to your action whatever it is. Either you stay unhappy or happy for this particular situation. But then again list down your options your pros and cons of your decision. I say it again WRITE IT DOWN and take some day off. F*ck your new bf, make it your decision. If he run off you will loose everything you hoped for.

[pigrah]

Dont u think na imo ne feel ana na guy mao sad ng na feel nimo sa imo husband first time u met?
or what if in the long run u will feel the same pud if u leave ur husband, unya dugay mo sa imo new guy..ma pul-an ra gihapon ka?
stick to ur husband girl!dont be stupid!temporary rana imo feel sa guy. stop encouraging ur feelings!

[Fern]

"My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else"

if you said he is good than nganu mangita man cya ug lain ..... limut ko ug ask ani waaa

[kebot]

I think situation suggested...

WHY SETTLE FOR GOOD WHEN THERE IS BETTER.

[i-c-u-p]

kamu bai nahigugma ba....dili lalim oy...

[isaac95]

ive read this topic from page 1 to 6 but nag sakit na ako tangkogo.. ask lang ko.. kumusta naman ang ts? may i ask, si no.2 pinoy ba? btw ang ts, taga cebu?

naka-GETS ko sa imo hunahuna bro....

seems like naay something reason ang TS mao na-Inlove siya sa other guy....

[cp103]

guys please dont judge me.married ko but inlove ko sa laing guy. kahibalo man ang guy na married ko,pero di naman ko happy sa amo marriage life.gi ingnan ko niya biyaan ako hubby tapos pakasal me pero murag unfair man gud coz my hubby always treat me right.unsaon man ni?nice guy man pud siya.libog ko.helppp!!!!

3 words sis, YOU ARE MARRIED... don't worry sis, each and everyone of us reach a point where we do stupid things,and we don't know why we do it. But since you we're able to recognize and admit that you have a problem, then everything is not too late.

here's what you need to do:

1. Avoid the 3rd party at all cost so that your reasoning won't be clouded.
2. Locate the source of the problem in your relationship w/ your husband and be honest to yourself about it, don't be on the denial.
3. After locating the source, talk to your husband and don't hesitate to tell him everything about your problem, lay all your cards on the table. I'm pretty sure your husband is mature enough to be understanding and be able to make constructive conversations w/ you.
4. Both you and your husband need to find the solution togethere, if both of you feel the need to compromise then do so, anything to save the relationship and improve it.
5. Always remember that, if you choose to go w/ the 3rd party, please ponder upon these thoughts..." will i ever be happy w/ this person?"... "what if i don't, then another person comes into my life, will i be bound to do the things that i just did over again?".... "and when will this thing ever stop, until such time when i know that i'm happy and satisfied?"...."but what if i don't ever get satisfied, will i be bound to repeat these same mistakes over and over to a lot of different guys?"

I just hope that I've helped in some way to enlighten your mind sis. and like i said, you don't have to worry,just do the right thing and everything will turn out fine.

[jake_smack11]

such an immature situation u have. . be true to yourself and to the people around you...lain kaayo ng pa-asahon nimo ang usa ka tao. ..better to tell ur husband the truth as soon as possible.. .maybe naa sad xa lain..hehehe

[iveslovespink]

ang ako lang wa nasabtan ba.. kai you're saying he's a good man then mu ana ka na he doesn't appreciate your efforts and cge ka reklamo na di mo magkasinabot and sometimes di na nimu xa ma stand.. and that wala xai time for your family at all..

with all these things, why say that he's a good man?
being a good provider doesn't make you a good person..

[jrvillacortz]

mao na problema sa tawo kay dle ma satisfy...REALITY BITES!! it's like buying something from a store and returning it when your not satisfied?!? that's the price of marriage...dba nagpaksal mo kay love ninyo ang each other?!?haha

naa jud person na dle ma satisfy..

just pray to the lord almighty that you will be forgiven...GODSpeed!!