For my opinion... You are just temporarily in-love with this guy don't assume that it will last. You get into marriage now you have to stick with it. Finding time? r u sure ur husband doesn't have time 4 u? or maybe ur husband want to do some activities like example jet skiing or doing something for himself and wants to share it you; and you would always say NO. In this manner ur husband will have to assume himself busy in front of you just to get out and find time for himself on what else he will do. This is only my assumption...
But, hey girl your married already.. that feeling of yours is only temporary your not secure about it yet. The guy you fell in-love with, NOW? He might change for the next two or three years then again you will say i am not happy with him anymore..
You've been blessed when you married your husband and don't be cursed by falling in-love or having relationship with another guy.
Trust me girl, men always fall in-love even we are married but we know what we are doing is wrong and it is only just temporary, nothing will last except your marriage.
Let us put it this way, if ur husband is always bz? make the first move by sleeping with him and having those mumbo jumbo moves, for one (1) whole month. It means every night or even every hour then evaluate your situation, i tell u, ur husband will change from workaholic to a lover boy.. hehehe
Don't even think of leaving your husband... thats my advise... His worth keeping and worth saving your marriage...