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[Soul Doctor]

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i will still love him. Whats good about him is right now i could sense he is working hard than ever. It's like he is having goals. His dreams was crushed when He didn't make it to the PBL years back. But i often told him Maybe God have different plans. And maybe he is destined for something else.

Are you kidding me?
Girl, I have another story for you.

Our second to the youngest sister married a basketball player from Cebu.
i don't wanna mention his name because he is popular.
So they got married when he is not that sikat.
He went to manila and played for purefoods.
They have 2 kids.

but the problem with having a sikat husbands is--
every other girl is chasing them.
There are models, college students, running after him.
The money he earns from his career he spends it on sexy models.

Now my sister went home and live here because she could not stomach the lifestyle of her husband.
She tends to her children, while his husband is womanizing in Manila.
He only return home during holidays.

Its every girls dream to marry a basketball player.
Wish there was a happy ending for them.

[handsoff241]

doc can you suggest to them to marry online gamers?

Btw, yeah i noticed your voice was a bit small compared to your looks.

but my point was, those guys from the fm station's advice are way out of your caliber bisan ang imung idea na lang ang ilang gamiton or tagaan nimo sila ug seminar.

[jelousofthe1]

Maybe your pride is hurt.
Thats why you are affected.
Ikaw nitagad unya wala ka niya tagda.
But it is just a normal reaction kay nagexpect man ka nga tagdon ka niya,
kay gitagad gud nimo siya.
Pero kung wala ra unta ka nagexpect nga tagdon niya, dili ra sad ka maguol karon.

But his pride is hurt too when you have this new guy.
So its quite normal for him to act that way.

Or maybe he is with someone new who is a jealous type.
Maybe he does not want her to notice you.

Or maybe he has not moved on yet.
And he does not want to deal with it.

basin sad brad noh?
kay pag ojt niya, nag pa assign man xia dri sa city para maduol mi
then,..to work things out daw,,,
nya di naman jud ko kay
kapoi kaau xia dad.on...mag cgeg pangitag bikil...
...pagkahibaw niya nga naa nako new guy,,
ni uli xia sa ila...didto nalang xia
pa assign...
na worried man ko brad uie,,
kay feeling nako...
suko kaau xia nako...nya di bya ko
ganahan naa maglagot nako....bug.at man gud sa dughan nang
naay nahiubos nimo.......
unsa amn akong buhaton para mapasaylo ko niya
ganahan ko magka amigo mi...unsa man akong buhaton

[Soul Doctor]

doc can you suggest to them to marry online gamers?

Btw, yeah i noticed your voice was a bit small compared to your looks.

but my point was, those guys from the fm station's advice are way out of your caliber bisan ang imung idea na lang ang ilang gamiton or tagaan nimo sila ug seminar.

I'm sorry bro.
I would not recommend that to my own daughter,
much more suggest that on line.

I'm an old time gamer and an online gamer too.
So I've wasted too much time on virtual reality.
We sometimes escape our reality when we do not like the real world.
Thats why we play games and online games.
Of course we 'll say it is just to pass time or to have fun.
But there's more to it than just fun and a pass time.
It is addictive or habit forming.
25 percent of male college students who are failing in class
failed because of online games.

[Soul Doctor]

basin sad brad noh?
kay pag ojt niya, nag pa assign man xia dri sa city para maduol mi
then,..to work things out daw,,,
nya di naman jud ko kay
kapoi kaau xia dad.on...mag cgeg pangitag bikil...
...pagkahibaw niya nga naa nako new guy,,
ni uli xia sa ila...didto nalang xia
pa assign...
na worried man ko brad uie,,
kay feeling nako...
suko kaau xia nako...nya di bya ko
ganahan naa maglagot nako....bug.at man gud sa dughan nang
naay nahiubos nimo.......
unsa amn akong buhaton para mapasaylo ko niya
ganahan ko magka amigo mi...unsa man akong buhaton

Trying to think of him or talking to him--is not a good thing.
Both of you should move on.
The best thing would be not to communicate with him anymore.
Don't try to save your friendship.
Be sensitive enough to admit that the guy is hurt
and befriending him could add insult to injury.
Let time heal all wounds.

[Soul Doctor]

doc can you suggest to them to marry online gamers?

Btw, yeah i noticed your voice was a bit small compared to your looks.

but my point was, those guys from the fm station's advice are way out of your caliber bisan ang imung idea na lang ang ilang gamiton or tagaan nimo sila ug seminar.

If you noticed bro,
the difference between their style and mine--
-- is-- honesty.
They give advices
but you can sense that they too
are guilty of the things they are talking about.
Example, they talked about men who fools around with women.
But we all know that these guys fool around with women a lot.
Thats why we know they are not for real.

[sh4ntee]

Question: A couple has been in a relationship for over a year and a half already. They're at the right age. Both have jobs each of them are supporting their families. The girl is supporting her familiy, and the guy is supporting his family too especially his younger bro to go to school. In this situation, do you think the guy is ready to get married? Is not having money a valid reason not to get married or is it just an excuse for the guy not to engage in a real commitment?

[jelousofthe1]

Trying to think of him or talking to him--is not a good thing.
Both of you should move on.
The best thing would be not to communicate with him anymore.
Don't try to save your friendship.
Be sensitive enough to admit that the guy is hurt
and befriending him could add insult to injury.
Let time heal all wounds.

do u think moabot pa ang time na mapasaylo ko niya??
..i mean,di baya nako sah tanan kung nagkabuwag mi...
though,ako jud ang ni decide...

[Soul Doctor]

So, are you truly honest??.. are you sure that ure such a clean person as u say u are.. people make mistakes, and people also deserve a chance to change. bcoz i myself is unperfect. as well as you. No offense but i hope you consider those people who gives advices not only to your clean self. honesty is not ur style. its discriminating others so that other may trust you not them

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Bro, you have not read my post here?
I have my own faults too.
I have my own weakness.
I did not claim to be perfect in any way.
It was just my opinion.
Because I myself would not ask advice from them,
based on this observations.

But I guessed I generalized too much.
So there.
Maybe I meant "sincerity" instead of the word "honesty".

[rod_x]

So do you want a girl friend or not?
Cause if you just want friendship
then you do not need a girlfriend.

Know what you want.

Why don't you make them all friends first.
Then, when you know which one to choose as girlfriend,
thats the time you can pick one for a girlfriend.

hmm. the thing is, uyab na baya nako ang usa.
nya i want to keep the '3rd party' a friend.
pero ambot karon, di na kaau ko ganahan makigsturya niya sa fone.
na.turn off ko. hehe. mas nindot man kasturya jud akong uyab gud.
and i guess it's a sign for me to stay.