This will add to ur confusion, but this will help..ask ur self ug ganahan jud kaayo ka niya and whatever happens kaya nimo ang mga consequences..kay ug kaya then dont mind what others says for as long as happy ka, u can even make ways to break their relationship with her gf..
BUt ug d kaya sa imo consenxa..palayo nalang but guaranted jud nga adunay pain..mao nay giingon nila nga if u really love the person set him free..hehehe..i know this is bullshit, but hey this sumtyms work...so goodluck.