HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[monmon]

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[QUOTE=Sol_Itaire;4689666]the men are just incensed because this is their greatest fear, kanang i-cheat sila sa ilang gf/wife. bow.


sakto jd ka.. dli tawon lalim magpatulo sa singot aron lang mabuhi ang pamilya then ang asawa toa didto busy pd ug pang karingking ug lain laki..... ka maau jd tagod tagoron....

"the mouse will play while the cat is away"

[matrixcs]

resolta na sa sobra ka hayahay ang life.... tan awa lang nang mga mag asawa nga magbira ug Kariton...
its really increadible that love could exist in such hardship... especially survival na.

yeah but they are happy inspite of their situation.. as long as we keep our marriage safe and fireprrof, bisan unsa pa ang situation God will also help us in to survive...

[maka-ZERO]

In-ani jud ning KASAGARAN sa mga WOMEN noh... gamay nga PAGKUKULANG sa lalaki..mangita dayon ug IKAPULI... Dili man lang sila maghuna-huna nga nagsikma na ug PANCIT unya nagsingot na ug DUGO ilang bana sa sige ug TRABAHO para lang ma-provide ilang WANTS and NEEDS...

This is such a MADNESS...

Kabaw ka nga naa ko SILINGAN diri sa amoa... pirmi BUN-UGON ug YAWYAWAN sa iyang ASAWA kay sige lang hatag ug TIME niya... Permi man gud to sya sa Balay...

(SERIOUS Mode)
Ako pa ani ni nitwit, pasalamat sya sa ginoo kay ang nabana niya kay matod pa niya "has all the women could ask for" ---- MAYKAYA, a good PROVIDER, dili mangita ug KABIT, dili sad mang-LAKE, maayo mo-DEAL sa ubang TAWO.

[seven_segment]

okay, nakasabot na ko sa imong gusto ipasabot bro.

look, women are as capable of straying from a relationship as you men are. do not be naive in thinking that women are angels and should be judged by a higher set of standards. kinsa may gabuot buot ani ba? ah ang mga lalaki ra pod aron naay double standards from which they can benefit. liman ba og kung mangabit ang asawa, i stone to death; kung mangabit ang bana, aw ipaasawa nalang niya...asawa number 4!

men were/are considered the bread winner in their families. karong panahona, praktikal pa ba nga ang bana ra'y manginabuhi? you'd want your wife to have a job too coz you know that one income just cannot support a growing family. and how do wives respond to this? okay ra oi, manarbaho pod. maski inig uli mao pa'y magluto manghugas manglimpyo og unsa pa diha.

in short, society is changing. double standards will cease to exist! and rightfully so. so if a woman strays from a marriage, let us not say "mas lahi man gud kung ang asawa ang mangabit." what the--

so yes, many of you are incensed because of what the TS has done. ako pod i don't agree with what she did. but i tell you, if lalaki ang nag start ani nga thread, i won't think differently. ambot lang kaha ninyu. basig you would start blaming the wife pa for being fat and haggard (she's fat because she bore your children and haggard because she does all the housework!).

@Fern If you think this is ultra churva, you will get some more.

la...karon pako kabasa da...

naabot naman ka anang dapita Ms. Beau...

simple raman akoa Ms. Beau...hehehe...

[nitwit]

In-ani jud ning KASAGARAN sa mga WOMEN noh... gamay nga PAGKUKULANG sa lalaki..mangita dayon ug IKAPULI... Dili man lang sila maghuna-huna nga nagsikma na ug PANCIT unya nagsingot na ug DUGO ilang bana sa sige ug TRABAHO para lang ma-provide ilang WANTS and NEEDS...

This is such a MADNESS...

Kabaw ka nga naa ko SILINGAN diri sa amoa... pirmi BUN-UGON ug YAWYAWAN sa iyang ASAWA kay sige lang hatag ug TIME niya... Permi man gud to sya sa Balay...

(SERIOUS Mode)
Ako pa ani ni nitwit, pasalamat sya sa ginoo kay ang nabana niya kay matod pa niya "has all the women could ask for" ---- MAYKAYA, a good PROVIDER, dili mangita ug KABIT, dili sad mang-LAKE, maayo mo-DEAL sa ubang TAWO.

sir we both work and we dont have a child.ako lang unta e minimize niya gamay iya pagka workaholic.

[Fern]

sir we both work and we dont have a child.ako lang unta e minimize niya gamay iya pagka workaholic.

and because of that .... nangabit dayun ka?

ka mabaw nimu ug reason oie.... and i think this Thread is BS

butyuka kha nimu ug childhood nu.... princessa

[hunt99]

guys please dont judge me.married ko but inlove ko sa laing guy. kahibalo man ang guy na married ko,pero di naman ko happy sa amo marriage life.gi ingnan ko niya biyaan ako hubby tapos pakasal me pero murag unfair man gud coz my hubby always treat me right.unsaon man ni?nice guy man pud siya.libog ko.helppp!!!!

so it means sis na wala mo magkasinabot you know sis nano nagm inyo pa man mo na di man diay ka sure morag kuwang ka sa love nimo niya going into a relationship hantod mam inyo mo both of you must love,care,comfort,trust,respect,honest and has good attitudes,moves and style og magkasinabot mo og malipayon mong duha andam mo mo sacripisyo so ayaw ky maka sala ka ana stay

[nitwit]

so it means sis na wala mo magkasinabot you know sis nano nagm inyo pa man mo na di man diay ka sure morag kuwang ka sa love nimo niya going into a relationship hantod mam inyo mo both of you must love,care,comfort,trust,respect,honest and has good attitudes,moves and style og magkasinabot mo og malipayon mong duha andam mo mo sacripisyo so ayaw ky maka sala ka ana stay

sir di man siya ingon ana before ka busy. it all started right after 3 months of marriage...when he took over the family business. 2 years pud ko misabot oi! na pass on lang sa lain ako love na dapat unta sa ako bana, wa ko mangabit.

[nitwit]

and because of that .... nangabit dayun ka?

ka mabaw nimu ug reason oie.... and i think this Thread is BS

butyuka kha nimu ug childhood nu.... princessa

yeah sir, botyok jud ayo me ug childhood.utro man tingale ka,thats why gibiyaan pud ka kay samot na tingale ka.

wa pud girl mupatol nimo sir woi, or magdugay ba kaha kay bayot ra ayo ka ug baba.talbogan nimo ang pokpok sa jungkera.

[Fern]

yeah sir, botyok jud ayo me ug childhood.utro man tingale ka,thats why gibiyaan pud ka kay samot na tingale ka.

wa pud girl mupatol nimo sir woi, or magdugay ba kaha kay bayot ra ayo ka ug baba.talbogan nimo ang pokpok sa jungkera.

dire ra ko sa forum murag bayot ug baba... but im completely the opposite in person.

and now that you mention it... basin utro sad ka mu patol ug pokpok? lolz thats right

basin pokpok na imung uyabuyab karon.... something a pokpok can only give you nga dili ma hatag sa imung asawa