HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[ggtumulak]

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Normal ra man jud na mag-away2x ang mag-asawa. Sa tan-aw nako, na-hot-tempered ra imong bana sis tungod sa ka-busy nya sa work. Angay ra jud na imo siya SABTON,you should be proud gani kay naghago siya og maayo para ma-well off mo. Naa juy mga lalaki na once ma-challenged cila sa ilang work, all-out jud ilang time and effort to achieve success. Dapat jud imo cyang suportahan.

In-ana jud na ang first few years of marriage sis. Kanang mag-doubt ka whether you made the right decision or not. Naa jud guro ka ani nga stage nga ma-overemphasize nimo ang bad things about your husband unya makita nimo ang good things sa uban bitaw. Juz don't entertain this kind of thoughts.

Mo-fail gyud ang marriage kun ang usa ray mo-hold on sa relationship. Sis, you know what moral thing you should do. Don't be influenced by what you've seen sa movies or tv shows unya i-relate nimo sa imo life. Ok?

[iron_v]

I suggest that you better tell your husband as early as today. There is no other best days to tell but today....! You said you don't want to hurt him, but I tell you... if he finds out your relationship with another guy from another source, it would be much more painful on his part. Better be the one to tell him the truth that you don't love him anymore.... Yes it's never easy telling someone about something that would surely hurt him... What's you're doing as of now won't help both of you in a good way.... You're just prolonging the pain.... It is better to give a big punch once rather than to give a small pins on his heart a thousand times... Para sa imo, which is more painful... ang kaisa ra or ang hinayhinay pero kadaghan....?Well, anyways... I don't judge you of being something related to moral issues... unsaon ta man... mao na nahitabo...

[moy2]

hala ka lisud ana oi.u better tell him na coz pra dli na xa ma asa but lisud sad ana oi.ahjihi.aw file nlng kag anulment.pra mka uyab kag lain og mgnhn nsd ka sa lain sa laki.waaaaaaaaaa.....ka lisud ana na situation oi.

[mmiicchhzz]

sis u told us na ur happy with your new guy ryt??...dba happy mn sad ka sa imu husband k2ng bag.o pa mo?dont tell me prmi ka mg change husband??aku point bah holy bya ng marriage gurl...dba gpakslan nmu ang guy coz u wanna live with him till death ryt?pero ang ending sis imu pjud decision..wer just here to advice u..pray ni GOD sis..and i juz hope so ur prayers will be answered...kaya mo yan

[rod_x]

let me ask you:

who's the first man you think of when you wake up in the morning?

hope you get a hint.

[Fern]

lolz..... libog ug utok oie

ni sakto gyud sa imu ang meaning sa libog both bisaya and tagalog

intagalog: M-libog!!
inBisaya: libog ug utok

"ouselves a break daw which is good. and he'll try to give some time. pero murag mao man gihapon everyday"

^ apuradang bata

[matrixcs]

HI there, I dont know what really is the status of your marriage life now, but im also married. Its like this, always remember that marriage is a sacred thing. ahm i dont want to put religion here but i will go first with the fundamentals of marriage,

first it is God who instituted marriage, meaning "what God has joined together, let no Man separate." That is the ultimate rule and command ni God. And we know that once we violate it we sin against him.

Second...
Philippine Law on marriage is also haivng the same thing, marriage is a sacred thing.

Question, You are married and yet you are having an affair with other men? Alam mo ba na pwede ka makasuhan nyan?

Criminal Case and Civil case for Adultery, You and the other party will be 20 years in prison. Plus you will pay 1.5 milyon pesos in moral damage to your husband and his family.

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now enough of those backrounds..

all i want to say is this.. first pila na kayo years married?

always remember marriage is a never ending development of relationship between you and your husband. since God instituted it, you must fear ang ginoo kapag sya na ang ma suko. above all else, think of this, what if your future son and daughter.. hindi ka ba maawa sa kanina because they will reap the consequence of what you are doing now..

Its not yet too late.... you can still correct your mistake now...

all you have to do... love you husband...

learn to love.. and let God be with you.

Have a nice day...

God bless you.

[iplayurgame24]

when i left the house sir, i stayed at the park the whole night. and at the morning i went to his place but he was heading off to work, so i had the whole day for my place.i left that afternoon cause my hubby ring me saying that he is gonna call the cops to find me. and i didnt want us to get to that point cause its gonna be so embarassing. ok ra sir,me as well couldnt understand what really has happened.


UPDATE: hubby suggested that were gonna get married in cebu this july.is this a good sign?or what? were already married here. he said he wants all my friends and families to come. do you think we need one?

ah ok.. you never said that way mang gud in the first place.. you left us no choice but to think that you slept in his place..

anyways, a nice wedding is good.. plan na dayon.. di ba exciting na ang kaslon? ok ra magpakasal oi.. kay diha ra man kaha mo nakasal? ok magpakasal sa pinas sad.. hehehe! kanang bonggang bongga gud.. ok ra man kaha nimo?? kung ako imong pangutan on go go go... kasalan na!!!!!

[matrixcs]

unsaon pag repair akong utok sir if utrong utok sa akong husband lisud erepair? ako go with the flow rajud ko.im not hard to please type of person. is asking for a lil bit of time together a crime?

libog tingale ko utok karon sir,kinsa man ang di maglibog bah?
ako bana always busy, unfortunately kita ko lain na mapagbalingan ug atensyon (i did this unintentionally), karong guilty ko, i told my husband what i did, ana siya were gonna give ouselves a break daw which is good. and he'll try to give some time. pero murag mao man gihapon everyday.

sige lang ko hatag chance, sige lang ko sabot. mao nayabag na tingale ni ako utok sir kay sa sige nako pagsabot, siya wala misabot!

here is the best answer to your question...

get a marriage counselor then use that time to pour out whats inside your heart. its like this.. you are in the what i call adjustment period in marriage.. you know to be honest with you.. me and my wife celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary last may 17, but during our 1 year, we had undergone a lot of adjustments...

sometimes heavy fights talaga.. yet, i told my self this is just part of the early years of marriage.

There is no perfect marriage, and only God can make all things perfect in His proper time...
but for our marriage to grow now, it should be the man and woman who will take the initiative to make that grow by finding all the resources and solutions to keep marriage safe.

alam mo yung palabas na FIREPROOF? try to watch that with your husband and you will see how marriage is supposed to be.

here is what i want to you think of..

" There is no simple answers to your questions.. its only God can answer it.. if you will allow Him.."

God bless you!

[Fern]

here is the best answer to your question...

get a marriage counselor then use that time to pour out whats inside your heart. its like this.. you are in the what i call adjustment period in marriage.. you know to be honest with you.. me and my wife celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary last may 17, but during our 1 year, we had undergone a lot of adjustments...

sometimes heavy fights talaga.. yet, i told my self this is just part of the early years of marriage.

There is no perfect marriage, and only God can make all things perfect in His proper time...
but for our marriage to grow now, it should be the man and woman who will take the initiative to make that grow by finding all the resources and solutions to keep marriage safe.

alam mo yung palabas na FIREPROOF? try to watch that with your husband and you will see how marriage is supposed to be.

here is what i want to you think of..

" There is no simple answers to your questions.. its only God can answer it.. if you will allow Him.."

God bless you!

resolta na sa sobra ka hayahay ang life.... tan awa lang nang mga mag asawa nga magbira ug Kariton...
its really increadible that love could exist in such hardship... especially survival na.