
Originally Posted by
handsoff241
Your father needs prayer, if you want (if you are Catholics) tell your mama to ask the help of the Blessed Virgin. Offer rosary to her(Mary) everyday with the intentions of converting your father and make him realize his mistake.
I'm very glad that you said that your mama was able to forgive your father during the first event of adultery, a very martyr act of forgiveness, a virtue of a true Christian.
But just to lighten up the thought of you and your family, remember that Jesus told us that if we want to follow Him, we must take up our cross in whatever form they may manifest in this world, for you and your family, your adulterous father is your cross. Take him and carry him and offer him to the Lord and ask for his conversion.
You(TS) as a son/daughter, must pray for your mother and for you whole family that they may endure more and that they will not loose hope and endure this hardship your family is experiencing.
And also remember, suffering may it be physically, spiritually or emotionally and in what scale or manifestation it may be, it is a sign that God trusts you and your family, especially your mother, to share the martyrdom of His son. Never leave God's side He is not ignoring your family, He has plans.
Well of course if you don't believe in God, 5417 happens.