just got married because

[DeepwateR]

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hi guys, just want an incite.... i just got married last year, and though we had plans to supposedly marry in the future with my current husband, nasayo-sayo kay I got pregnant. I just delivered my baby and he is now 4 months old. The thing is when i delivered na my baby, my husband hardly touches me in bed. its been almost 3 months na. and i am fully recovered and went back to my prepregnant figure. i know he is probably afraid of getting me pregnant again but if i talk to him about family planning options, he shuts me out saying abstinence is the only answer and yes i do agree but come on... we are married. and he is a guy. i just am so confused sometimes and all the more makes me insecure that he hardly touches me. am i not attractive to him anymore?

[lovely_chic]

be open to her sis...ask him why ing ana iya actions lately. communication is the key to your problem!!!

[elvandesantos]

yah. it think you should be open about it

[z2upiD_040305]

just talked about it sis...talked to him...kung naa bay problema

[iveslovespink]

ask him straight out.. para di ka mabuang trying to figure out why he's acting that way..
if he still answers na hadlok xa ma preggy ka, like pa prangkaha nalang xag answer jud..
f tungod lang jud ana, in all honesty..
aw, discuss mog family planning kanang kamu both mu agree on using.. it's true na abstinence is the ultimate form of birth control.. pero remind him that you are married gud..
pagwapa nalang pud sis.. kanang di najud xa maka pugong bah..

[isaacrobot]

try to tease him

[winnie]

try to solve your probz, for the sake of your baby

[gkoopir]

hi guys, just want an incite.... i just got married last year, and though we had plans to supposedly marry in the future with my current husband, nasayo-sayo kay I got pregnant. I just delivered my baby and he is now 4 months old. The thing is when i delivered na my baby, my husband hardly touches me in bed. its been almost 3 months na. and i am fully recovered and went back to my prepregnant figure. i know he is probably afraid of getting me pregnant again but if i talk to him about family planning options, he shuts me out saying abstinence is the only answer and yes i do agree but come on... we are married. and he is a guy. i just am so confused sometimes and all the more makes me insecure that he hardly touches me. am i not attractive to him anymore?

how old are you sis if you don't mind?
Murag naa problema imong husband, talk to him.
I think it's not that you are not attractive anymore, there more reason to that.
Naa bayay ways if kinahanlang jud. so dili reason ang abstinence.
Don't be insecure.

kaligo sis nya pagpahumot after para maattract siya.
Wear your nighties and give him some good massage.
Unsa man to imong gibuhat katong single paka nga naattaract siya? ayaw to hunonga og buhat..
Y don't you make a move also?

[chad_tukes]

hi guys, just want an incite.... i just got married last year, and though we had plans to supposedly marry in the future with my current husband, nasayo-sayo kay I got pregnant. I just delivered my baby and he is now 4 months old. The thing is when i delivered na my baby, my husband hardly touches me in bed. its been almost 3 months na. and i am fully recovered and went back to my prepregnant figure. i know he is probably afraid of getting me pregnant again but if i talk to him about family planning options, he shuts me out saying abstinence is the only answer and yes i do agree but come on... we are married. and he is a guy. i just am so confused sometimes and all the more makes me insecure that he hardly touches me. am i not attractive to him anymore?

what?! ABSTINENCE is the only answer? toink.

[Sol_Itaire]

^LOL

the husband needs to talk to somebody