White lies: are these ever ok in a relationship?

[angelbymistake27]

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wala jud na color coding when it comes to lies...a lie is still a lie irregardless of its color...i'd rather hear the truth and be hurt than being lied...nya masakpa ra sa kadugay..mas sakit na nuon kaau

[mine_dayoff_mine]

well for me... i always believe that "truth hurts"..... bhalag nag sakit or makasakit kag feelings basta sulti kag tinood... bisag unsaon pa na nimo ug pahimutang ug sulti, askit jud na xa...
the more nga mg.lie ka and if masakpan ka.. mwala hinoon ang trust sa taw nmo... and the moew na ma-complicate ang situation... so mintras sayo pa... be honest nlang jud....

[piggychan]

everybody lies ^^

i love House, MD

[doydi]

mao jud the truth hurts... di jud ko mamakak sa akong gf uy

[Luskan]

I won't tell the truth directly to a person who is very emotional.

Tell some truths and hide others, because most of the time people can't accept those things especially when it's very very critical.

[gcc4426]

sometimes we need to lie...
pero kung pwd dli mamakak, mas maau. lisod na kuhaon balik ang salig kung nkasala nka. mahay ka.

[enigma12]

The TRUTH may HURT but it's those LIES that KILL..

i'd rather be hurt in knowing the truth, than wearing a smile knowing its a lie...
"What's better: a lie that draws a smile or the truth that draws a tear?

[cp103]

"half-truth wont hurt anybody."

would you like to hear the truth even if it would hurt your feelings?
would you like to tell the truth even if you could hurt someone's feelings

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well, in the 1st place, why should we do something that we know will compromise our partner's feelings. If we can avoid those situations, then nobody will end up being hurt, nobody will end up having to hide something under the guise of "white lies"....That's why naay saying nga" think before you act"....

[p0knat]

it is true that a lie is a lie... i agree
a white lie is still a lie... i still .... agree

but... there is a difference between a lie... and a white lie...
(in the first place... it wouldnt be called as such... if its the same)

IMHO... there are times or situations that lying is valuable... or let say it is necessary in order to save ones life... or someone elses life...


@white lies.. is it ever ok in a relationship?
still id say .... it depends

my POV

2 thumbs up...

dili jud malikayan kay naa man gud tyms nga dili angay isulte..

depnde ra jud na sa sitwasyon..

[philipd]

its better to tell the truth then to make a fool out of a person.