Ask me any question about relationships

[Soul Doctor]

hi doc, ask ko if naay tambal ang pagkamanhid? i've never been inlove

Start by loving yourself.

[Soul Doctor]

naks.. dili lang ko patambag doc ha.. up lang ni nako kay nice kaau imo mga reply.. ^_^

Thanks!
Spirituality man jud akong turf pero mas-maka-help tingale ko diri.

[Soul Doctor]

Soul Doc, Unsay basihan sa imong mga ipangtubag ani?
Are studying about this?

I'm not studying about this.
I'm not the academic type.
I'm the "live the day" type of person.
Practical but spiritual.
Universal ang approach nako sa pagtubag.
Or, I tend to see the bigger picture.

[Soul Doctor]

Doc,

What do ex-gfs and/or present gf/wife say about having a relationship with you. Do you agree with their assessments? Why or why not?

Sol_itaire

Having a girlfriend or wife is always good for your personal development.
They can see our blind spots.

We should consider what they are saying.

But we should take it all as something positive and constructive.

[syphoon]

nganung sakit man?

[Soul Doctor]

nganung sakit man?

Unsa may sakit?
Kuyawan man sad ta ani nga question oi.

Generally,
Sakit jud na basta bag-o pa.
pero mawala ra na ang sakit madugay.

[gkoopir]

Maayo kaayo mo tambag si Soul Doctor..

Sakit iyang kuan Doc kay tungod sa iyang uyab.
Basin kasing2x na Bro.. napasakitan cguro siya sa iyang uyab..

[lisa_614]

Hello doctor,

How can we control our emotions? We don't like to hurt the people around us, but naa jud times na dili ta ka-control. Naa ba tay high blood, if di ma pugngan?

[Soul Doctor]

Hello doctor,

How can we control our emotions? We don't like to hurt the people around us, but naa jud times na dili ta ka-control. Naa ba tay high blood, if di ma pugngan?

Sometimes anger or conflict is just a product of misunderstanding.

1.)Start by not judging.
if you do not judge a person, you will find it easier to understand a person.

2.)Lower your expectations
If you do not expect so much, you will not be disappointed as much.
and disappointment leads to anger.

3.)Do not try to please everybody.
Sometimes the more you want to please everybody the more you will be frustrated.
Because, as the cliche goes, "you can not please everybody".

4.) communicate with the person in a sober and peaceful manner.
often misunderstanding occurs just because we are ignorant of the real situations and we do not know the reasons why they act that way.

[winnie]

nganong mopiyong man tah nig naay mo kiss nato? tubaga beh