nganu ang uban naa nay uyab mangita paman jud ug lain? wahahaha
soul doctor, i agree with what you said...aside from soul and life, relationship is important, and in a relationship, this should make both of you a better person...
now, my questions are...
1. i'm the "keeper" type, and my bf seems to be a "player" type whom i thought a "keeper" type sa bag-o pa me na uyab...you think our relationship would make both of us a better person if we'll continue with our relationship (given that he still wants me to be his gf pero there are times mutipas xa sa laing path, he tends to flirt with others)...?
2. you think a "keeper" would always be a "keeper" and a "player" would always be a "player", how long would it last to be what one is - either a keeper or player- in a relationship?
3. i've done break-up moves and it seems like the "universe" would still drag me into him..do you have any idea what's up with him? is there "energy" or something in him that drags me into him?
doc ..nkoy ask..y man ang parents cge man cla compare nko sa ilang panahon saona..lyk uyab2 muana daun na cla na "sos kami saona paghuman na namo iskwela ng uyab2..kamo bata pa gani mo(3rd yir college na gani ko).."..??
Sad to say my dear, a player is always a player.
And it gets worse.
Something in their childhood made them that way.
A cheating father.
An uncle's s.e.x.capades stories that fascinates him.
It's their confidence that attracts these women.
They've played their game too long
that they know how to handle relationships with different women
with confidence.
Admittedly, lahi na ang priorities sa mga bata karon.
I'm a witness to that.
They can not help but compare.
There's nothing else to give as examples --
but their own personal experience.
Personal experience.
I have a brilliant daughter. Smart and talented.
Yet she have boyfriends even if "gi-bawal" namo nga iyang parents.
You can see her priorities are not on her studies.
When one boyfriend goes, new boyfriend comes.
And then finally she got pregnant at the age of 20.
She did not graduate from her course.
Now shes taking care of her baby (his husband is still a student)
and the possibility of her graduating and getting a job is getting smaller.
Of course it is expected.
This is exactly why we did not want her to have boyfriends in the first place.
But arrogance of the youth tells them that they can handle boyfriends
and they know what they are doing.
I suggest you listen to the wisdom of the older people.
It is there so you will not have to experience other peoples failures so early in life.
Miss E,
I know you are now of mature age.
And yet you feel good being with this guy.
Sometimes reason has no weight to women in love.
But feelings are important to you right?
How would you feel if you are the other girl.
Who expects her man to be with her in a few months and suddenly...
a woman selfishly wants her man for her own.
How would you feel?
Last edited by Soul Doctor; 04-06-2009 at 11:22 PM.
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