PARENTS lost TRUST

[sweet_freak]

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from the time i had a boyfriend d na jud ko kasulay maka laag ug bisag asa...except if naay invitations. i lost the trust of my parents coz nag uyab2x ko...how can i regain it? please help me

[inkodell]

instinct dyud na sa atong mga parents ma'am, nga kun magsugod na gani og mag laag2x ilang mga anak, diha na sad na magsugod na mo-istrikto sila. dili naka nila pala-agon, syempre makuyawan sad na sila kun basin naay mahitabo nimo didtu sa layo. usa ra pasabot ana ma'am, pinangga ka sa imong mga ginikanan. naay uban diha pinasagdaan na lang, tan-awa na unsa ilang kinabuhi, badlungon pa sa tanang badlungon. angay nimong buhaton kay sabton na lang nimo sila, then hinay-hinayon sad nimo sila pasabot nga dalaga na ka, nga niabot na ka sa stage anang uyab-uyab. ingna sad, "ma sabta lang sad ko, kamo sad gani ni papa sa una, nag uyab-uyab sad baya mo." hehehe. payts ma'am?

[Dorothea]

from the time i had a boyfriend d na jud ko kasulay maka laag ug bisag asa...except if naay invitations. i lost the trust of my parents coz nag uyab2x ko...how can i regain it? please help me

Show them nga responsable ka and that they have no reason to worry. Keep your grades up.

[sweet_freak]

"ma sabta lang sad ko, kamo sad gani ni papa sa una, nag uyab-uyab sad baya mo." hehehe. payts ma'am?

ako na ni na sulayan ang ila e tubag, kay ngano naka graduate studies naka? kaya na nimu buhi-on imu self?

well, thanks!

[sweet_freak]

Show them nga responsable ka and that they have no reason to worry. Keep your grades up.

uu, im doing it right now...pro maka pa mubo ug self esteem...grabe au cla magpa down nako...

[KASAAC]

ako ika advise nimu gurly payma ipaila-ila sa imung ginikanan ang imung uyab, ang reason siguro sa imung parents nga nag stricto sila nimu kay basin wala lang pugkay hisgot-hisgot sa ilaha na nakauyab na diay ka, unya dili biya ganahan ang mga ginikanan nato ug ingon ana...dili biya na sila ganahan ug bagat-bagat vah, huna-huna pud siguro nila dili tinarong or unsa bah..

[sweet_freak]

ako ika advise nimu gurly payma ipaila-ila sa imung ginikanan ang imung uyab, ang reason siguro sa imung parents nga nag stricto sila nimu kay basin wala lang pugkay hisgot-hisgot sa ilaha na nakauyab na diay ka, unya dili biya ganahan ang mga ginikanan nato ug ingon ana...dili biya na sila ganahan ug bagat-bagat vah, huna-huna pud siguro nila dili tinarong or unsa bah..

ako na ni nabuhat pud...all forms of paila-ila... haiii...ahak ani thanks!

[sandsss]

Regain their trust bit by bit. Take it slow. Instead of going out, invite your friends over to your house. It's a great way for your parents to know the people you hang out with. Plus, you'll have fun. Once they see nga okay ra imong friends, maybe i-allow na ka nila ug laag2x.

If they do allow you to go out, ang tendency is mag set sila ug curfew. When they tell you to get home at this hour, uli at that exact time. Ayaw lang sa ug argue nga sayo ra kaayo; at least gipa-laag ka nila, diba? Be responsible for your actions. Show your folks that you're mature enough and you can honor your agreement.

Trying to win back their trust can take some time. Be patient lang. It will be worth it in the end.

[sweet_freak]

Regain their trust bit by bit. Take it slow. Instead of going out, invite your friends over to your house. It's a great way for your parents to know the people you hang out with. Plus, you'll have fun. Once they see nga okay ra imong friends, maybe i-allow na ka nila ug laag2x.

If they do allow you to go out, ang tendency is mag set sila ug curfew. When they tell you to get home at this hour, uli at that exact time. Ayaw lang sa ug argue nga sayo ra kaayo; at least gipa-laag ka nila, diba? Be responsible for your actions. Show your folks that you're mature enough and you can honor your agreement.

Trying to win back their trust can take some time. Be patient lang. It will be worth it in the end.

yey thanks!

[oli]

I agree with Sans. Take it slow, bit by bit.