thanks for all your concern.....
I feel sorry sa imu life karon...for 5 years living in together??i think you don't have a future for that guy...if i am the guy... i would change my life have kids...my answers to your questions:
2. Yes, abuse po yan sa mga kababaehan..
3. you are not liable of his actions because that his decision taking his own life...
Good luck..
talk to your family! they will not just advice you but they'll also protect you for sure! So as of now, if i wer you, since you are willing to change your life, i think it'll be good to plan ahead kay sooner or later ma end naman jud na! so i want you to start planing ahead just to justify things out ok?! gud luck and please don't make the same mistake again. always take time to think through!
I have 10 words for you:
Please dont waist your time to a guy like him.
Youre right of your recent decision that you will not see forever in him. Dont worry if he will commit suicide coz youre not answerable of what will happen to him, dont worry if he will kill you at least youre totally free..just kidding, my suggestion file a case dont be bothered.
IMO,
Its not a total waste, its more of a learning experience. The waste comes in is when you still spend time with him after realizing your wasting time.
As for your other question
1.)Im not very sure about this but i think it would depend on the papers on whos name is written on it, you should consult a lawer for this one.
2.)I think you can, but im not sure how you can smoothly / peacefully explain to him about that, but since you've been him with 5years im pretty sure you know the right buttons to push.
3.)No, even if he dies in your doorstep.
pangadto kaha mo sa marriage councilor aron magkasinabot mo unsay missing link sa inyo pag-uban. ang usa sa mga problema man gud why modako ang di pagkasinabot kay ang communication gap, ug bisan nagkatabi na dyod mong duha sometimes its good to have a third party na maminaw ninyo aron mahan-aw ang inyong mga emotions, asa mo nadisappoint sa usat-usat or unsa bay mga dili ninyo ganahan na buhaton sa inyoha partner na pirmi ka maglagot. naa dyoy expert bahin ana.
i suggest before you take some drastic actions, pangadto samo duha bisan wa nakay love o naa pa aron maklaro ninyo ang mga issues regarding the hearts ug aron masabutan ninyo ang angay sabutan.
and the greatest help in this situation? ask God for guidance... for He knows what is best. Pray always. Let God take care of your wounded heart.
It's not the end of the world. Kaya na nimo oi asus! Be strong with God's love.
and lastly di man dyod na smooth to end a 5year relationship. The after effect can sometimes be felt after a number of months. It's already part of your life's history book.
Last edited by graphicare; 03-04-2009 at 10:51 AM.
thanks sa inyo mga advice.....really appreciate it
im still living with him..pero nka plan nako sometimes okay amo situation pero i know balik balik lang gihapon me ani the same issues...maau unta dali lang ibiya ani. malooy man sad ko kay dependent au
siya nako. hahay.....
girl...anah jud na bsta mag drugs...wa jud nay au...ako gani kasuway naku uyab ana...pait jd mura ko nag liv n ug...buhi na patay na tao...kay ag otuk patay but ag lawas buhi...palayu nlg niya girl...in anah sd ko sauna di xa gusto mag buwag me...ako nlg jud ag ni palayo now...kita najud ko laki na tarung wa bisyo but...sobra sd lage ka possisve hahayy!!pait...mka tawa rka someday kog mka kita ka nya na ikaw ne move on na but xa bisyo ghapon...peru kug ikaw gusto ghapon ka mo stay nya...emo ranag decision...sayang lang ag time nimo cge bantay nya...thnk..girl..![]()
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