Love with out Marriage? Living together is this acceptable?

[constance22]

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Hi, everyone

i just want to know ur perception and story perhaps.....

Advantages and disAdvantage?
Anything you can share about this topic.


thanks!

[countrykidanthony]

the Bible is clear about this that it isn't acceptable. It's fornication.

But Bible aside, here's my logic.

How can a man or a woman say they love each other but are afraid of commitment?

It isn't love. The Bible said that the heart is the most deceitful part and its true. Sometimes our feelings deceived us. Especially when we mixes love with lust and compassion.

So let me ask you. If a guy would ask you to live with him cause you really are both inlove. Do you think you gonna be happy? Your relationship is based on sands and sooner or later you'll get broken hearted. Wanna know why? because if that guy really loves you, then he'll marry you.

And it's a big lie to say that people should live together in preparation for marriage. It doesn't take a statistician to survey that most of those who practice "live-in relationship" ended up in misery and agony

[countrykidanthony]

Same goes to *** before marriage. Lots of guys and nowadays even girls would reason that *** is their ultimate expression of love.

but the truth is, it isn't. It's plain lust. trust me. Before i became a christian i used to have the same mentality too...

[constance22]

the Bible is clear about this that it isn't acceptable. It's fornication.

But Bible aside, here's my logic.

How can a man or a woman say they love each other but are afraid of commitment?

It isn't love. The Bible said that the heart is the most deceitful part and its true. Sometimes our feelings deceived us. Especially when we mixes love with lust and compassion.

So let me ask you. If a guy would ask you to live with him cause you really are both inlove. Do you think you gonna be happy? Your relationship is based on sands and sooner or later you'll get broken hearted. Wanna know why? because if that guy really loves you, then he'll marry you.

And it's a big lie to say that people should live together in preparation for marriage. It doesn't take a statistician to survey that most of those who practice "live-in relationship" ended up in misery and agony

I understand all those things but we need to be open nowadays, Husband and Wife can say that they LOVE EACH OTHER "till death do us part" but in the end they can also say GOOD BYE "divorce/annulment".

I believe Acceptance is the answer to better understand life , Anybody can get married anytime but then again we need to think the reality the doubts, regrets and all the things/questions behind.

A consideration that we need to understand that people are different in so many ways. We cannot always apply whats written in the bible. Everyone's perspective is unique and sometimes its difficult to understand.

I believe commitment for each other is the most important. Not because you are committed for the sake of marriage.

"Your relationship is based on sands and sooner or later you'll get broken hearted." I agree but married or not its just the same thing probably people just don't want to go for all the hassles if marriage didn't work out.

The purpose of our heart is to pump our blood, "so let us say I love you with all my hypothalamus" and this is the most deceitful part and its true.

Peace!

[gamatoy]

Love with out Marriage? Living together is this acceptable?

well now adays living together is very rampant na jud daghan na jud nag ipon na walay kasal kay tungod sa panahon na mahal pakasal ug hasol pakasal,,pero para nko dili jud na maau mag ipon nadili pa minyo kay as a catholic naa jud tay gisunod na kinahanglan mag minyo b4 mag ipon pero saon man na daghan naman nag ipon walay kasal..so na ara jud na sa tawo if mo sugot mag ipon bisag walay kasal..ana lang na sya...

[blitz_kza]

love w/o marriage is not acceptable in Gods eye,..

[constance22]

what do you think?

[prukutung]

people nowadays are not anymore aware of what everything really means.... blinded ta sa pagkaModern ron...

[ralph_81]

Definitely this is not acceptable in the eyes of man and God.

but unfotunate to say that these days, the devil is so busy tempting everybody to a point of turning the meaning of morality into practicality.. Immorality being acceptable as righteous, some uses the negative aspects of life as an excuse. These are very alarming signs of today and what more tomorrow?

from the start, going into a relationship for any other reason other than love is already a sin. and going forward from that becomes more sins...therefore, before we decide to get into a relationship, we have to prepare ourself to accept the fact that LIFE IS NOT PERFECT neither anyone of us is perfect. what is important is we learn to adjust ourself to the needs of others. we try to acknowledge each other's flaws and we find ways to correct our mistakes.

if we are going to search the meaning of love, we will not find one particular description for it. but for me Love is just doing good to others unselfishly.

[productspecialist]

MGA BRO ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT BOOKS ARE MADE ONLY BY MAN .... ALL OF THEM,,, the thru meaning of Marriage is the binding of two parties like a contract......... Pero di ba dapat mas important kung LOVE ang nag bind........think about that.....

P.S. GOD is LOVE is NATURE......pag nalaman nyo kung paano ang tatlo... im very sure.... u understand well....