About One's Past: To tell or not to Tell?

[eilrach]

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hmmmm.. it depends sa imo past.. dili tanan ma sulti.. if you think that you need to tell her what happened to you and your ex's.. then tell her, she needs to know that. but, ayaw lang sad e.detail pag au na maabot na noun nga malain cya nimo.... just tell her what she needs to know about you...

ingon to ang priest pag kasal sa ako bestfriend "Accept everything. dili lang ang mga maayo na batasan sa imo wife/husband. nobody's perfect gud. bisag unsa pa daw ka boutan sa imo asawa, naa japon na cya bati." so, kung unsa iya past dapat na nimo dawaton... kana kung love nimo ang person. ~_^

[emzness16]

kung serious gani na relationship.. i think she/he has to know.. the earlier the better.. para kung mag dugay namo.. dli nana ma awayan... para kung d nya madawat.. then its not meant to be.

[gigglesflip]

it depends if he will ask, but for me no need coz whatever happen in my past is nothing to do with him.. past is past..

[crinkle]

if there's a risk of you guys bumping into his / her past, then you might as well discuss an "overview" of each others past. just don't get into too much of the details as it might hurt all the more.

better that you find it out firsthand from your partner than to get news rewritten from other people.

[pinkbaby]

right akosabni..
if u're not n sa serious relationship, ok ra kng di..
but if u feel nga serious jud ka ani nga guy or girl...maybe you should..
im sure he or she will accept it watever it is if nag care jud cya nmu...

[hunt99]

am it's your desisyon rana ky actually labi pa kung ang imong past ikaw ry gi binoangan sakit baya maka huna huna nasd og balik pero nara na ninyo kung mo solti mo or dili basta past is past most important is your present

[P-Chan]

the past is not really important..

[jonz]

okz rana mg share mn pdmi sa akong uyab sa mga pst namo past it past learn to turn the pages

[P-Chan]

at most only when they ask...

[mP_tiu]

there are things na kelangan imu i shut imu mouth about..