Secret marriage

[leo_trams]

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secret marriage?

- ask your partner, nganong i-secret pa man?
- mahadlok ka nga mahibaw-an nga minyo na ka? ngano man?
- ikaw? nganong mosugot man ka ug secret marriage?
- unsay makuha nimo if mosugot ka nga mag secret marriage mo?
- unsa pud ang makuha niya if mosugot ka?

define kuno what is secret marriage to you?
tingalig...parehas ra na sa civil marriage hap imong definition hehehehe



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[imdutz]

bati man ang marriage nga walay witnesses
mas maayo ang formal marriage jud

murag lisod lisod jud ang ing ana nga situwasyon, murag lisod gihapon ang pagpa annul

mao lge,,,
hahaayyy unsaun nlng ni nko...
grrr...
wa najud ko kasabot..
ii cnt even tell it to my friends..
bata pa mn gud ko uii
haayyyyy

[imdutz]

this only means secret to the family of both parties heheh naa koy kaila nagpa secret marriage homan nag away nag buwag problema na noon wahahah annulment nasad..

ang2x, dnt want my parents to know..
nah patay jud ko...
mao secret marriage nlng kuno...
naa bah jud nah??

[imdutz]

ambot f naa bah jud secret marriage ha..
wa mn gud ko kebaw,,
-maong secret namo kay i dnt want my parents to know ky for sure my dad would be hysterical about it, patay jud cguro ko..
-mahadlok ko if ako parents mkabaw..
-musugot ko kay nahigugma mn pd ntawn akong kasing2..
i dnt know lge, maybe you all would think nga im sucha fool, pero i guess u can do stupid things wen ur nluv,,bogo mn jud ko ui,, hahayy tabang ntawn..
-i reli dnt knw unsa akong mkuha ani, samot na f after d mu work out..
-mularga man gud xa by next yer unya gnahan xa na magpakasal daw mi para ma at peace iyang utok wyl he's away kay para d daw ko mangita og lain, ahahay...
pleasssssseeeeeeeeeee................
hellllllllppppppppppp
got a dull mind here.....

[kiekim]

you alone will be responsible of your own action if matters come to best/worst its your responsibility,just wondrin' whats there to keep on such union since its very important also to your family,don't you think its a little bit unfair on your family...think harder my dear what you're talkin' here is part of a lifetime choice,mind you "ikaw raba ang babaye".

[wgoipeng]

just want to clarify? What do you mean when you say secret marriage? As long as you were married before an individual authorized by law to solemnize marriage, yes, it is valid and the process for annulment is the same. Yes, the children born out of a valid marriage can inherit from their parents.

[jaide]

it's a matter of trust my dear..don't resort to anything na in the end dli diay ka ma at peace..

[babygin2005]

babyjoy
mao lagi nga ako nalang gihuna huna daan ang worse unya sa among kinabuhi as couple. pero hinuon dili man siya magpermanent dire adto man sa gawas pero ako dili man sad gyod ko mokuyog niya kay mandapog raba ni siya sa uyab pa mi. mosamot unya ni ug pandapog kung naa na gyod mi sa usa ka house

hala kakuyaw ani nadine uy...akoy nahadlok para nimu...please, pray jud and ask for God's signs and enlightenment...much better, makig storya ka ug madre or pari ba hinoon arun ma enlighten ka sa imung decision-making...

[babygin2005]

ambot f naa bah jud secret marriage ha..
wa mn gud ko kebaw,,
-maong secret namo kay i dnt want my parents to know ky for sure my dad would be hysterical about it, patay jud cguro ko..
-mahadlok ko if ako parents mkabaw..
-musugot ko kay nahigugma mn pd ntawn akong kasing2..
i dnt know lge, maybe you all would think nga im sucha fool, pero i guess u can do stupid things wen ur nluv,,bogo mn jud ko ui,, hahayy tabang ntawn..
-i reli dnt knw unsa akong mkuha ani, samot na f after d mu work out..
-mularga man gud xa by next yer unya gnahan xa na magpakasal daw mi para ma at peace iyang utok wyl he's away kay para d daw ko mangita og lain, ahahay...
pleasssssseeeeeeeeeee................
hellllllllppppppppppp
got a dull mind here.....

nge...ayg tuo ana, ingun ana pud akong bf before sya nlarga, arun daw ko dili mangita ug lain, then i-seal daw amu relationship...unsaun!! wla sya nalifong??...bitaw, ako rajud gpasabot ako bf ato nga time, i assured him that you will return to the same girl, wlang labis, walang kulang inig uli nimu...hehehe...sabot raman sad sya, kalooy sa Ginoo...

[babygin2005]

There is no such thing as "secret" marriage in the Philippines, because you have to get a license before you get married, and all applications for licenses are posted in the newspaper (classified ads) for ten days before they are approved. People from NSO make sure that the public is informed. So di na sya secret.... Naniguro ra sila basin naa mu object...

You are running away from something right? And you think that getting married is the best solution? I am really sorry to inform you, but you might be making the biggest mistake of your life. Why? Running away is not a solution. whatever your problem is, you have to face it. Not facing the problem only gives you temporary relief and making another person as an escape goat is a big NO NO. A problem cannot be solved by another problem. It is a problem because as you said earlier, you don't have feelings towards the guy that you will be marrying. Don't you think it's unfair?

making a sacrifice for someone you love is very sweet....but ayaw gamita ang imong self as the sacrifice especially when imong pugson imong self nga magpaksal sa isa ka guy nga di nimo love.

If mudayun man gyud ka pakasal, natural, di magka anak mo, the more nga problema....You are dragging a poor innocent child into the situation. Since you don't love the father, ikaw na mismo ni ingun nga makig buwag ka/ pa annul ang marriage. Do you know how traumatic it is for a child nga iyang parents mag bulag? Imbes nga ikaw ra ang naay problema, hasta ang bata maapil and madala na niya hantod mudako sya. Di ka ma konsensya? And whatever nga rights nga imong gipag laban para sa imong anak to be, wa ra nay kwenta, bisan unsa pa na nga properties imong gi ingun....kay imong anak emotionally na traumatized na....I don't want to sound rude or anything, but please do not involve the kids....they did not ask us to bring them into this world. so let's not drag them into this.

Di na issue ang legal advice dire. If di ka magpakasal, di naka mag kinahanglan ug legal advice. Domino effect ra ni sya. From one problem, mu lead to another, and it will go on and on and on. So much better nga di nalang nimo sugdan. Do not rock the boat!

Again, whatever you are running from, face it! You cannot hide forever. Secret marriage? No such thing. Marriage? it is not the answer to your problem. Kids? Please do not not drag the innocent.

Every problem has a solution. make a strategy on how to solve your problem. Do not create another problem in order to solve the existing one. Above all, pray. Nothing is impossible.

correct kaayo ni!! very good mam!! maynta na ka huna2x si nadine ani...