dillemma

[chillaxkat]

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+++ very well said dude....dOn't rush up things...u said uv beEn together for almost a year..it means..both of u still don't know each other that much...if u want to get away from ur Uncle..live on ur own..alone..but not LIVIN in wd Ur BF..tsK tsk..that's tOo risky..think of possible consequences.. and wHat if's..

my boyfriend talkd to my mom and his mom pd, and tried convincing me na the best way is to live with him na kay pakasal ra mi later, but I told him I would rent a place lang usah, but he still insisted that we will live together jud. I have learned a lot from your comments, salamat jd kaau ninyo istoryans...

[hunt99]

my boyfriend talkd to my mom and his mom pd, and tried convincing me na the best way is to live with him na kay pakasal ra mi later, but I told him I would rent a place lang usah, but he still insisted that we will live together jud. I have learned a lot from your comments, salamat jd kaau ninyo istoryans...

even nag talk na, not yet sis ayaw sa pag dali ky di pa kaayo mo grabe ka so-od

[falloutmac]

i need some clarifications.

1. How old are you?
2. How old is the guy?
3. Why would your uncle want you to marry this guy?
4. Where are your parents? Are you living with them?
5. Did something happen inside the room? if yes, did you use protection?

you first have to answer these questions in order for us to give you a clear and definite answer.

idol jd kau ko ni xa muda ug advice ui.. klaruhon jd tanan ba.. murag imbestigador mudag pangutana.. keep it up bro!


kuan, hmmm.. if i wer u, mu rent nlang kog lain place.. ky murag lain kau na nsuko imu uncle bcz of hm and den u will live with him aftr nmu muhawa sa nu.. if u can afford it, try to get ur own place lang sis.. ila ilaha sag tarong ang guy b4 moving in sa iyang place.. dle man gud na ana ksayun sis na once imung kaunon, iluwa ra kay npaso ka.. what if mabuntis ka? or worst, idump ka nya? asa ka paingon?


pero f i wer n ur place, before ko ni buhaton tanan, il try my best na ma ok mi sa akong uncle ug everyone in my family. moving out of ur hauz s not the solution really.. even f cla maoy mismo mupalayas nmu, ur uncle is just mad.. what do u expect hm to do? say? let him cool down lang sah.. den try to talk to hm..

f di na jd mada, thats the time na cguro na mu lakaw ku.

[miyay]

imho, get your own place. nice ang feeling na independent ka. live with him if you feel like it but not at his family's house. if i were the sister of your bf, i will not have you in my family home. ako thinking kay, if you're old enough to enter into that kind of relationship then you are old enough to rent your own place. just be responsible, thats all

[joan_of_arc324]

to those who said na OA imo uncle, dli bya...try to understand where he is coming from, u can't expect him to say "how was it?" after he caught them, in fact, you should be happpy for it just shows na concern sya sa imoha.don't move out, try to settle things between you and your family, even if you think you are in the right age and we are in the modern times (so doing "it" is not that big of a deal) i say try to ask for forgiveness.moving out man gud will not solve the problem, even if you're thousand miles away, mas nindot ang feeling na ok ang imo relationship sa imo isig ka taw, much more sa imo family kay kung dili, wla jud kay inner peace. always remember sad na no matter what,atoa ra jud family ang ato madaganan...i do believe sad sa istorya sa mga parents, na wait till u become a parent kay makasabot rka why...