mahadlok ko sa family sa akong uyab. help

[emcentricity]

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thanks for the help

[lady_blackrose]

if u love him sis dont give him up otherwise ur gonna regret it afterward so if i were u....fight for ur love.who cares about his family?its not them that ur gonna marry...its him. having a relationship with everyone against u is quite challenging...it test ur patience on how long can u hold on him anid love for how much can u endure. forget insecurities..there is nothing to be insecured about since ur now his present. just ignore his family... i know its never gonna be easy but in that way u wont be affected as well as ur relationship.sooner or later they will learn to accept u coz they've got no choice esp.if u both will settle down. so thats it sis...its up to u to decide though but if u really love him..dont give him up just coz his family doesnt like u...its gonna be so unfair for him.

[jlodarl]

don't give up! just fight for him.. if strong imong feeling para niya.. ma accept ra ka later on sa iya family.. just do things for his family para later on.. ma ka realize ang family na bisan gi unsa ka nila ug treat kay u stayed strong and buotan and respectful.. try to win their heart..divah..

[aridoasis]

we got the same situation... my dad HATES my partner, but here's my point of view...

it's your lives. i get it that in the filipino society, marrying someone means marrying their parents, but ultimately, it's your lives that you are living, not his parents. and as long as he doesn't push you to be what his parents want you to be, as long as he loves you for who you simply are, then don't be afraid.

[emcentricity]

thank you very much for the replies, helped me a lot. thank you jud, i hope it will all turn out okay, but for the record, reading these replies ,made me smile and it gave me hope. thanks

[shaxyra]

prove them wrong sis.

i was with someone for 3years. Our family got super close. That was one reason I wanted to break free from the relationship because there was no more room for me to grow. Everything was in place. Gaga jud ko. HAHA.. we broke up and literally went separate ways. Our relationship of 3 years was complicated since there was a 3rd party involved. To cut the story short. we broke up. The hardest part was on me. I found someone I really like. It was really so difficult at first. My brothers were obviously closer to my ex. We had a lot of occasions wherein my ex is present and i am with my bf. It has been a year. Things are running smoothly. My ex found someone. But we tried our best to keep the friendship. So slowly nako giintroduce ako new love. Good thing understanding sha. It doesn't mean na abi dugay sila sa iyang ex you should step aside. Fight for it girl. Hold on. Keep the relationship strong. MAo siguro na gbuhat sa ako bf mao wa jd mi nagbuwag. I know it's difficult jud pero time would really help a lot.

Good luck

[emcentricity]

prove them wrong sis.

i was with someone for 3years. Our family got super close. That was one reason I wanted to break free from the relationship because there was no more room for me to grow. Everything was in place. Gaga jud ko. HAHA.. we broke up and literally went separate ways. Our relationship of 3 years was complicated since there was a 3rd party involved. To cut the story short. we broke up. The hardest part was on me. I found someone I really like. It was really so difficult at first. My brothers were obviously closer to my ex. We had a lot of occasions wherein my ex is present and i am with my bf. It has been a year. Things are running smoothly. My ex found someone. But we tried our best to keep the friendship. So slowly nako giintroduce ako new love. Good thing understanding sha. It doesn't mean na abi dugay sila sa iyang ex you should step aside. Fight for it girl. Hold on. Keep the relationship strong. MAo siguro na gbuhat sa ako bf mao wa jd mi nagbuwag. I know it's difficult jud pero time would really help a lot.

Good luck

noh? it happens jud diay.. hehe thanks sis i will give it a shot thanks for the vote of confidence

[jblim1980]

prove jud sis that they are wrong..dili man cla maoy magpuyo pohon dba kamo man sa imoha bf?so cheer up pasagde nalang nah cla...ayaw pakigbreak niya rather do some moves nga lalo makagusto jud u pag au elang anak nga as in patay jud sa imoha ba..dont give up kay wala baya kay gebuhat nga daotan..its wrong if imoha xa euli eya ex..

[emcentricity]

bitaw bitaw noh.. sakto salamat sis go go go

[candy_ytal]

fight for it jud.. besides, it really takes time. cge lang, madawat raka nila one day.. dli btaw sila magkyog.. kamu btaw.. don't blame urself coz its not your fault in the first place.