About One's Past: To tell or not to Tell?

[cesski]

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your partner should know about your past, labi na kung serious mu duha. much better to tell him/her in advance then for him/her to find out from someone else.

[jackyboy]

Good morning mga istoryans. I just want to know your views on, is it important for you to let the guy or girl know about your your past? i mean ok ra ba before ka manguyab or sugton mas maau ba na makbalo or pahibal-on na nimo ang guy or girl about sa past? like for example anak lang ka sa gawas..... dli na virgin ang guy or girl.....

hope i can get an good answer from this thread. tnx in advance.

if she asks, then i'll tell her. even if someone else asks, then i'll tell him/her also.

[candy_ytal]

well... it would be best in your relationship to tell the past.. but then as time goes by in a relationship... everything goes with it.. pero mytah past is past najud.. basin pa d ay naa pa nka hold nya sa iyang past.. sakit nuon...

[belle]

i'd prefer to be asked rather than telling it.. but i don't see any problems telling my bf about my past... i mean, my past has been a part of my life so i don't see any reason to hide it...

[P-Chan]

there's no point in b****ing about the past...

[black_vixen]

must tell.. if i were to gain her trust. i'll be that open.. past na gani. so, be it good or bad. it would be up to her to decide if she'll accept it or not db?

i think only those who play around are guilty of sharing their past.. daghan dark secrets.. and i hate it when that happens. walay openness & honesty.. mg cge hinuon ka doubt2 sa iya..tsk tsk tsk..

Sakto jud ka, we share the same views on this part. If pangutan-un gani ka unsa imong past, sulti-an jud nimo xa sa sakto. Dli tinaphaw ug dha na noun itug-an nga for example, "naa d ay kay aids nga nakuha nya sa iyang ex human ka nkig.s * x nya". Dba walay openness kung naa man kay plan mo serious ug relationship. Mao ghapon late na xa motug-an pero later sa relationship cge nana ug tagu2x mkig.kita ug mga babae kay mkig.s * x. Faet!

[shaxyra]

i treasure honesty more than anything else.. i guess it's part of the getting-to-know each other stage.. i don't mind having a bf and not knowing all about his past.. we have a lifetime to discover each other.. as long as he won't lie.. it's really fine

[mybabyfudgee]

musulti jud ko daan kong unsa ako past...so its up to him kung iya madawat or dili di ba anha man masukod ang love

[psyd_1]

wala man koy masulti..hehehehehe

[hunt99]

Good morning mga istoryans. I just want to know your views on, is it important for you to let the guy or girl know about your your past? i mean ok ra ba before ka manguyab or sugton mas maau ba na makbalo or pahibal-on na nimo ang guy or girl about sa past? like for example anak lang ka sa gawas..... dli na virgin ang guy or girl.....

hope i can get an good answer from this thread. tnx in advance.

you know sis or bro it's more ok na maka solti ka sa imong past di na nimo e hide ky aron ang girl or boy kabalo na daan about nimo like for example if you have a negative past and you won't tell it to the boy or girl and when they'll know about it pede ra na ang mahitabo ma wagtangan silag gana towards you so mas ok gyud na makabalo daan ang boy or girl pero sad noon ang uban di mo solti pero naa sy uban mo solti na daan