Dealing with In-laws

[silver]

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dont take it seriously, dont care what they say its not them whom i getting married with,,, when im infront of them plastican lang...... never disagree if im with them

[iagosmom]

Maybe, naging strong ako dahil sa bf ko at sa baby namin.
Mosukol nako nila bisan asa pa mi moabot. Usahay maluoy naman gani ko sa ako kaugalingon, maghunahuna ko kun unsay ako sala nila nga ila man ko daug-daugon. Kapoy bya, pero di na jud ko magpadaug-daog karon ug di nako mohilak tungod nila. Bsan kausa, wa na silay natabang or nahatag namo, sila pa hinuon maoy sige ug pangayo namo. If moingon sila nga didto sila pangayo sa ila anak, moingon ko nila nga naa koy katungod sa ila anak ug nagtrabaho sad ko para di sila kasulti nga ila anak maoy nagpakaon nako.
Sige pa jud ug panghulam ug sapatos, polo shirt, blouse ug kwarta kapin na siguro sa 10k, wa jud bayad-bayad. Moanha ra sa balay nya mokaon, matulog unya mangita kun unsa nasay ikalibak nako. Pagkawala juy mga batasan.
Siguro, mao na ni ako kapalaran... heheheh.
Pero okey ra man nako nga ingon ana na sila nako. Basta kay happy mi.

thats just the way the world works right now. mag-binuotan ka, matingala na lang ka ngano kontrahan ka. LOLz.

mas maayo pa lagi ni nga evil ka usahay.

[WhiteLady]

so far She does not interfere with the marriage... but sometimes gaka irritate lang ko gamay especially when I feel nga maspirme sila ga talk sa akong hubby kaysa kami sa akong hubby... =(

[al1974]

Yes. You are in love. You both finally decided to tie the knot. In one way or the other, both of you have already gone through the "MEET THE PARENTS" stage. Maybe, everything is all bed of roses. Or maybe, something seems to be a bed of thorns.

Though, a perfect positive in-law bundle is not a fairytale, some if not most of us out there have this in-laws who are or or or just but plain pain-in-the-ass.

if you happen to have any in-laws such as this, please share your styles, tactics, whatever you may call it, on how you deal with them.

They say, there is a way to disagree without being disagreeable. What's your way?

yes, there are no perfect in-laws but you still have to respect them. The Bible says- honor your father and your mother so you may live a long life... and that includes in-laws.

Agree without being disagreeable- it's saying no without using the word NO, it's like disagreeing but not letting your emotions get in your way.

[simply_wife]

i thank God pinangga ko sa akong in-laws maybe because dli ko
musupak nila and mataha sila nako. i don't start any arguments,
i'd rather keep silent than to say things against them.

but i saw situation wherein the wife of my hubby's brother have
an argument with my mother in-law. as in shinagitay silang duha
and tinubagay and sometimes cried pa jud. usahay pud sister sa
akong hubby and wife sa brother sa akong hubby, mag-iyahay
lang ug libak, ako ilang istoryahan. unsa kaha if silang duha ang mag-
atubang noh? basin ako pud ang gilibak.. heehe! so far la man nuon
ko kadungog ug bad things about me...

daghan na au naglalis about chismis-chismis.. hadlok cguro sila sa akong
husband kay gi-ingnan man sila na if makadungog gani syag chismis about
nako nga silay nagbuhat-buhat kay iya daw papahawaon sa ila balay...

so far la man jud, they have been very nice man pud nako coz i am
nice with them man pud...

[medjz]

ok ra man aku in law... though dili jud pareha sa aku parents.. na i can be weird as i am.. hehe
most of the time pud na naa mi ngadto, hilom lang ku, musulti pud panagsa or if askd lang.. bag-o pa man lang gud mi.. hhehe

[pruvinxana]

in my case, tipon man mi sa ako mother in law blessed sad ko kay ako mother in law kay pinangga man ko... dili man sad ko magsupak-supak niya kay my mom reminds me always na "ayaw lang jud supak sa imo ugangan aron walay gubot then makagaba bya na basta mosukol ka ug ugangan"...mao lang na ako butang sa ako mind...niya kung unsa iya hilig ako sad siya palitan maski ginagmay and then i-uban sa la-ag like sa mall...though magyaw-yaw siya kay naa sad badlongon sa balay but dili man ako iya giyaw-yawan...pray sad ko na magkasinabot mi...mao ra jud na. pray lang jud..godbles...

[aylen]

Ako, keep quiet nalang bsan there are some things na dili jud magkasinabot with my mother in-law. Kay even in our panag-uyab and first day of marriage, niingon jud sya na dili sya ganahan nako kay Dili ko Catholic. I am a born-again Christian and so is her son who is my husband. And murag sagpa sa iyaha na gidala nako iyang anak to my faith, nagminyo pa jud mi.
But we're happy now and so blessed by God especially with our son.
Pero akong father in-law, pinangga kau nako.
Ambot lang!

[tallthel]

yes sa una..bt now dli na...hehhehe

[wgoipeng]

generally no...