About One's Past: To tell or not to Tell?

[chinamorena]

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if feel nimo big deal siya para sa imo other half, then you should tell him/her..
pero kung dili,it would be much better not to tell him/her unless mangutana..

the past was just yesterday..you were like a different person then, maybe less mature, less
experienced,

Good morning mga istoryans. I just want to know your views on, is it important for you to let the guy or girl know about your your past? i mean ok ra ba before ka manguyab or sugton mas maau ba na makbalo or pahibal-on na nimo ang guy or girl about sa past? like for example anak lang ka sa gawas..... dli na virgin ang guy or girl.....

hope i can get an good answer from this thread. tnx in advance.

[jerkzz]

secret..................?

[GOthique]

+++ he has the right to know about u...but it's up to you if u'LL teLL him..

[seven_segment]

depends...

if you find it vain and bitter...wold benefit...if she/he msut know it...

go on...

pero I think...you should not worry...present lover must accpet it...

if he/she loves you...sincerely...

[digitalsuperman]

if the topic came up why not.theres nothing to hide.

[hunt99]

maka tell jud sa mga trusted pero kung di trusted di ko ka tell

[leo_trams]

mo tell diay ka nga:

- Sus kadto ako uyab nga si talpulano, puerte kaayo to modala ug kitkit. Grabe kaayo to mo t0rj@ck nako. Puerte kaayo mo BANG nako, duot ug pas-pas kaayo, magtubod gud ako-a, lami kaayo siya modala wui...hehehe unsa kahay ikasulti sa imo BF o husband no?

- Sus, kadto ako uyab nga si talpulana, grabeha adto niya wui, dili man ko undangan hangtud wala nay motulo. Pirme lang ko adto niya t0rj@ckon, siya pa gyud mo bayad sa motel dinha sa reclamation, hasta sa amo lunch ug dinner siya bahala, usahay adto ko niya t0rj@ckon sa mahalon nga hotel like shangrila...mo unsa kaha ang imo GF o wife no?

ingon ana nga "tell" ang inyo gusto mahitabo?

[charmz_fire]

^^lahi nmn sad ng imo bro. u should know unsay angay ug dili angay isulti. ur old enaf for it. if u feel its important to tell.. ok go on.. but u must always take the consequences

f seryoso kaniya... yea i think its important to tell a lil about history of ur self..
atleast she/he will know u and in return siya sad
mosulti about sa iyang self .. getting to know each other very well stage ba..
para naa moy gamay back ground sa usag usa.. atleast u have ideas sa iyang pagkatawo..
kay past reflects your future..
kung usa ka karun.. tungod na sa imong kagahapon..
bisan mo ingon pa ka nga past is past..
dili pa gehapon na angay na reason para imong e-ignore lng!
it should be givin' enaf time pa gani.. to know kung unsa mn jud ng tawhana imong mamahimong uyab..
kay basin if magkuyog mo.. unya imong partner mokirig lng ug kalit..
wla ka kabalo ngano ug na unsa na siya kay wla mn xay geistorya nimo.. kay past is past mn kaha..
so.. better gehapon na detailslike that mahibaw-an sa imong mahibong partner in crime!

[leo_trams]

ahhh...so dili gyud tell all.
some things are best kept between you and your past. Ilubong sa kalimot.

If duda ka nga if imo sulti-an masakitan ra, ayaw na lang. pareha ug pagkaon ba, when in doubt don't eat it.

[Kishin888]

haaaayyyyy i have to know ... the earlier the better para ma end dayun ang relationship