Man, I know how you feel.
Nakasuway na pud ko ana. Pero first things first, let me point out some mistakes you did para dili na nimo mausab in the future. Besides, I know naman sad na
YOU KNOW THE RIGHT THING TO DO. And the other guys also gave you an advice on what to do. So let me explain your mistakes.
1. Nipatuo ka na naglibog siya ninyong duha.
Of course, I maybe wrong about this 'coz you know your situation better than I am. Pero the way I see it,
IT'S ONLY AN ALIBI. If she really loves you then dili nana siya maglibog2x pa oi.
If she's really into you, she'll be dying to have you and keep you forever...And she'll dump the other guy 'coz she's that in love w/ you.
In my humble opinion, nakunsyensya na lang na siya bro. Nangita ug nindot na alibi para muhawa na nimo...Or gwait na lang na na ikaw ang muhawa.
2. You acted like a wimp.
I may sound harsh in here. But I am not your common friends na magplinastik nimo. Ingon pa sila, "You have to be cruel to be kind". Real friends tell you your mistakes 'coz they care. Man, you're my brother in this forum.
Anyway, giunsa man nimo pag act like a "wimp"?
Imong gihatag ang tanan! You are effin'
PREDICTABLE. It's boring.
You became the
BOREFRIEND...Not the boyfriend.
Mura gud nag pakan-on tikag Lechon Manok, Palabok, Coke, Sizzling Sisig ug Garlic Rice taga pamahaw, paniudto, ug panihapon for 3 weeks.
At first, lami pa siya..Pero for 3 weeks? I don't think so.
My point is, nawagtang ang spice sa relationship bro. Being mushy works if you don't overdo it. Dili naman gud siya kilig if in-anaon nimo.
That's human Psychology. Classical Conditioning says na if pirmintihon nya way lain2x na degree sa kanindot kay
MUEXTINCT.
If she really loves you bro, then nganong nag-inana man siya?
3. You deny the fact that you should leave.
I know you know what to do. Don't worry it's normal. Denial stage pa ka. Later ana muprogress na into Anger Stage..Bargaining stage..and so on.
Accept the fact na it's not working out.
Ingon pas Smart, "
THERE ARE MANY FISH IN THE SEA".
So my advice for you is...
GET UP. IF YOU FALL, DON'T CHOOSE TO CRAWL, STAND UP.
Learn different theories, techniques, or concepts on dating. You can hang out w/ me. I have friends who knows theories and applies it in real life. It helped us a lot..It helped me a lot.
Just PM me for more info bro.
Good luck bro.
