HELP My Girlfriend is pregnant but I have doubts

[radiostar]

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last month nag himo ko og thread about me and my girlfriend na wala nako kasabot niya (pero i can't find it anymore), gibulagan ko niya kay dile daw kuha.on nako siya sa work (but the real reason ana kay iyang gi sugot ang isa ka lake na nanguyab niya)... so ma.o to sad kaayo akong life ato, but then a couple of weeks gibalikan ko niya, ako sad siya gi accept bisan sakit kaayo iyang gibuhat ako raman pud naka limptan...

now the problem is halos 1 month kapin na wala siya gi dugo, nya thinking niya pregnant siya, ako siya gi advisan og pag PT, pero dile siya ka ma hadlok daw siya

my problem is wala koy salig kung ako.a banang anak, kay since ang trust nako nawala naman niya, basin sa pikas to na laki tong bata... ambot wala nako kasabot unsa na.a sa ako utok... unsa man ako buhaton

[Sol_Itaire]

well, as it's a known fact anyway that she had a fling, just go ahead ask her if she had sexual relations with the other guy and if she's sure about the father.

[jntio]

ask sa iya bai kng kinsa ky luoy pd nmo kng dli na imoha. para cgurado,pa chck mo sa ob ky ma hibaw.an mn nila kng pila na ka days. embrio mn guro ang term ana sa ob. gudlck bai =)

[joshua_loquias]

@radiostar.

luoya nimo bei oizt....why man sugot pka blik xa nimo? dude,its not ur lost, its her,,,tan awa,,,paets kau na f dli na imuha....alang manpd pa dna na, nga very expensive au ng dna....ako nimo f ever buntis na.....ang bata na lng kuhaa..biyahe inahan ana doh..f nabuaht nia na rn...possible au buhaton na nia blik...ky tan aw ana nia nimo low rka pagkaguy...i min,,buotan ka para niya vah....... pangutan -a nlng xa sa tnuod doh....f nkipag *** vah xa lain....f malditahan ka..bulagi ah...dghan babae bei..tunong pka sa loyal kau hahay....

[dexterdal]

well, as it's a known fact anyway that she had a fling, just go ahead ask her if she had sexual relations with the other guy and if she's sure about the father.

na dli gyud na moangkon ang babae na nakig *** sya sa lain, when mo last nag *** bai? kay kung dli mo match sa date dli gyud na imoha.

[mets]

mao jud! remember the last time you did it,and count pila ka days na iya wa pagmenstruate..paeta pud ana nga klase nga girl wui,di man kuntento nimo..

[Sol_Itaire]

@dexterdal
doesnt apply to all oist

well, siguro ang babae di pud sure kinsay amahan, so i guess the question now really is: Do you want to be with her and the baby? If yes, then who fathered the child is not the main point. that is kung maka love ka og anak nga potentially dili imo biologically.

kung ma defensive gani ang girl kung imong pangutan-on, and rants about you not trusting her, just tell her it's BS. what's wrong with the question? nakig fling baya siya, di ba? and taking her back doesnt mean you can't ask such things! She can't demand trust; she should earn it.

bottomline: tell her you have the right to know if you are the father or not coz this is a major life decision you're about to make.

[junmar4]

aw klaroha sa moves sa babaye oi...
daghan na jud tawn nabiktima sa ingana na style.

[estoyra]

asa d i ga work imo uyab bro? it park? unsa nga work call center?

[jlodarl]

ask her.. pa konsenyaa.. para mo tug an jud.. kay murag obvious man.. naa ra ka right feeling if mag suko2x xa gamita lang imo instinct when she'll answer and mga moves and reactions.. klaro na kaayo na sa pattern!