maka bitin manang pseudo-relationships... morag usahay ma suya ka kung naa siya kuyog lain, then usahay mo sugot i-date usahay dili kay morag ma hadlok makit-an ug someone... basta ayaw lang gyud mo ani kasuway nako ani, wala ni padulngan
I do believe na sa mga relationships na ganito mga girls ang mas dehado,but it's really up to them. We just can't blame others for whatever may happen in our life. They will be a part of the event but hey they are not the main artist. Let's think about it,if you'll not pursue such thing do you think it will happen?
If you come up with such relationship then be responsible of your actions.
You may end up falling and hurting each other but hey your aware of it in the first place. Then if you go home crying u will blame it to that whoever-friend-with-benefits you have. You were part of it. You and him/her.
Mostly some may think "bahala na" then that bahala na will end up "hate him/her for making me fall-hate him for fooling around-etc-etc". Same cases with those FWB, worst thing is the other one or both are committed to a diff. relationship.
So a piece of advice to those girls,if you dont want to get hurt then don't or avoid getting into this kind of relationships. Prevention is better than cure. By the end of it all,you can always rely on yourself and pity those who have given more than enough of themselves for others that they've left less for themselves.
Always be responsible of yourself.It's a risk. If you take it bear it,you get what you chose. Don't put the blame to other people only,we'll as victims you are still part of the crime.
Last edited by Baeybe_Bryce; 10-25-2008 at 09:23 PM.
its usually the GUYS who have the greater advantage
i believe the feelings involved are very real...![]()
for me lang ha, dili man jud ni sala sa laki or sa babaye , dili sad sala sa duha. the fact na nisulod sila aning butanga is kbaw jud na sila ui unsay consequences. another thing is humans are intelligent beings, irregardless of gender ,by nature di man jud ta mosulod tingali ug usa ka situation na alkanse ta. so meaning naka benefit sad ang babaye ani. this is will not be a question if kinsa ang mas dghan ang naka benefits kay mostly sa in-ani na relationships kay we all know unsa jud ni, more on sexual side raman jud ni ba. so i guess if mo enter ka ani na relasyon kay kbaw naka and be ready nalang jud if magbunga ang gitanum.
regarding sa mga "nagmalinis", in fairness to whoever it is, maybe ang pag brought up niya kay dili kaau liberated ba or maybe dili lang jud siya liberated na taw so mao na in-ana iya mga opinions. depende ra na sa taw jud.
both of the parties involved benefit from this situation. mostly mahitabo ni adults naman and the have thought this through.
sa feelings, it can be real or not. kasagaran, basta babae if wala gani feelings involve, ma develop rajud na in the long run. labi na if ang guy innate na sweet and caring. (susme) they might be 2 people na scared lang sa jud ma commit cause they know that dili pa nila kaya ang true meaning of the word.
this FWB is not for everyone. depende ra. i have friends who have them, good for them...
basta ako, do what makes you happy. as long as wala kay tao na gi binuangan.
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