
Originally Posted by
angel_eyes
this is very hard...i'm not a man so my obvious choice would be to let my baby live... if i would survive over my baby, i could never live with the guilty feeling that my baby died... which may lead to the break up of our marriage... so kung mahibaw-an daan nga lisod kaayo kung mabuntis ko, dili nalang ko patugatuga ug buntis so my husband and i would not make such a decision on who should die and who should live...kung gusto gyud ni hubby makaanak, mo-adopt nalang mi... if it is an emergency situation , i would want them to save the baby first and hope that by doing so they could save me as well...and i think doctors would go on saving the baby first...i've seen it happen once and i hope it would never happen again...
it happened in one of the small hospitals in cebu... the mom's pregnancy had been good, no illnesses, baby inside the womb is fine... when she was about to give birth, she had a hard time pushing the baby out...the doctor advised her na i-ceasarian nalang siya kay dili gyud mo-descend ang ulo sa baby kay pwerte dakoa...wala lagi kwarta, sige ingon ang mama nga 'kaya ni nako dok... ayaw lang C/S'...so gipahibalo na ang papa nga i-ceasarean... gi-andam na ang OR... ang mama tungod kay sige ug utong-utong in the hopes nga mogawas, gikapoy, naluya...timing gyud kaayo pag-abot sa OR, nikalit lang ug arrest... ang gibuhat sa mga doc, gi-open iyang belly ug dali-dali para makuha ang bata while another team of doctors is working to save her... daghana lagi doctor sa OR, ang ga-work sa baby, ang gawork sa mama...
maayo gani ok ra ang baby... ang mama gi-transfer ug ICU sa laing hospital...mom eventually recovered...