Who will you choose? Your wife or your baby?

[eggshell]

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of course my wife

[windfara]

would you let go of the person that you really love just because he cant give you a child? for me its ok if walay anak , other than loosing the one that i had devoted my life with. . .

den wat if the doctor will says that ur wife cant never be pregnant anymore cuz ther's sumthng problem in the womb of ur wife,,or watever? or maybe its difficult to have a baby nah? would u choose her pa rin?

[Kishin888]

wifey of course ... importante ang pinagsamahan ... ang anak dungag ra na sa gasto

[jlodarl]

it will be difficult to choose between them but.. the wise decision will be the wife.. coz you can make another babies...

[pinky26]

it will be difficult to choose between them but.. the wise decision will be the wife.. coz you can make another babies...

yup i agree with you...and i think its less painful..

[xave]

lisod ni lisod.. pro ug papiliun jd.. sa wife, of course.. though it's ur baby pro dli pa in-ana ka sakit
imo ma feel, unlike imo wife ma wala.. sakit jd.. maka anak pa mo or dili.. xay importante ky xa imo gdas altar..

[aLohaBby]

ingon akong uyab na if ever ma abot mi ana na point kay ako daw iya pili-on, although lisod i-let go sa baby...but pwde ra man daw mag make balik... toinkz!

[angel_eyes]

this is very hard...i'm not a man so my obvious choice would be to let my baby live... if i would survive over my baby, i could never live with the guilty feeling that my baby died... which may lead to the break up of our marriage... so kung mahibaw-an daan nga lisod kaayo kung mabuntis ko, dili nalang ko patugatuga ug buntis so my husband and i would not make such a decision on who should die and who should live...kung gusto gyud ni hubby makaanak, mo-adopt nalang mi... if it is an emergency situation , i would want them to save the baby first and hope that by doing so they could save me as well...and i think doctors would go on saving the baby first...i've seen it happen once and i hope it would never happen again...

it happened in one of the small hospitals in cebu... the mom's pregnancy had been good, no illnesses, baby inside the womb is fine... when she was about to give birth, she had a hard time pushing the baby out...the doctor advised her na i-ceasarian nalang siya kay dili gyud mo-descend ang ulo sa baby kay pwerte dakoa...wala lagi kwarta, sige ingon ang mama nga 'kaya ni nako dok... ayaw lang C/S'...so gipahibalo na ang papa nga i-ceasarean... gi-andam na ang OR... ang mama tungod kay sige ug utong-utong in the hopes nga mogawas, gikapoy, naluya...timing gyud kaayo pag-abot sa OR, nikalit lang ug arrest... ang gibuhat sa mga doc, gi-open iyang belly ug dali-dali para makuha ang bata while another team of doctors is working to save her... daghana lagi doctor sa OR, ang ga-work sa baby, ang gawork sa mama...

maayo gani ok ra ang baby... ang mama gi-transfer ug ICU sa laing hospital...mom eventually recovered...

[mata_hari]

My baby of course! dili mi kadugo sa akong bana... so, bahala na!

[monmon]

i wud rather choose my wife nalang coz pwd raman ghapon mka create ug another baby nga gkan namo duha than mabuhi man ang bata but very hard to find ug mom nga open arms jd nga makadawat sa imong anak... gawas kong naa ka pirme sa side sa imong anak pero unsaon nalang kong naa ka sa layo... dli kaha na daug daugon imong anak dha.