Husband cheating, should you tell wife.

[Rance]

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related to the topic.. watch the movie <b>Butterfly on a Wheel</b> it's not really that good but for the sake of curiosity just be patience and finish the entire movie then you will realize why it is important not to cheat to your wife or vice versa..

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Butterfly_on_a_Wheel

Plot summary
Chicago residents Neil Randall (Gerard Butler) and his wife, Abby Randall (Maria Bello), seem to have a perfect marriage and a worry-free life, but the film reveals later that Neil secretly has an affair with another woman. Abby finds out and conspires with the latter's husband Tom Ryan (Pierce Brosnan) to psychologically torture Neil for 24 hours as revenge. They pretend that Neil and Abby's little daughter Sophie is kidnapped by an accomplice of Ryan, while Abby pretends to Neil to be a victim like Neil (this is also what the audience is initially made to believe). Neil, and seemingly Abby, feel forced to comply with Ryan's demands.

Ryan forces Neil to withdraw with Abby all their savings from the bank. Tom pretends to burn all the money, but actually it is only a small part of the savings.

Also Abby pretends to be forced by Tom to deliver a document that will ruin Neil's reputation at his work. She actually hands over a blank book.

Abby lies to the police that Neil is unbalanced. As a result, when Neil reports the supposed kidnapping he is not taken seriously.

Finally Tom forces Neil to kill the woman he has an affair with, with a gun. However, it turns out not to be loaded.

[sexyjelly]

tell the husband first nga if d cya mo sulti ikaw mo ingon.. nga nakit.an nimu cya with someone else...

[Ronn926]

i dont know abt u guys, pero dapat gyud mkahibaw ang wife oi.. if ako ang wife, n u dont tell me... id hate u for it gyud...

[cebu1029]

They are both my friend, and I dont want any of them to get hurt.
If you were on my shoe what would you do?

you talk to both of them separately!

[Rance]

tell the husband first nga if d cya mo sulti ikaw mo ingon.. nga nakit.an nimu cya with someone else...

No it will not work.. cheaters are very good liars... it should be by "caught in the act" approach just like the TV show hehe

[cebu1029]

friend man kaha nimo ang husband and wife! tell what you know!

[susan7704]

if u know them all..just tell them the truth if you really do concern to them dba?

[susan7704]

it depends upon the situation of there family..but you need to be honest to them what you see and what you feel about the one who cheat..coz what if someday your husband/wife cheat you? then your friend didn't tell you what they see?

[ronz_rodz]

hmmmm panimahos .. so mag cheat pud guro ko sa iya wife.. hehehe joke but we can settle the score if both parties knows why he cheats..

[Bongoton]

I'd chose the lesser evil. I'd keep my mouth shut. Di ko mag sugod2x ug gubot nga possibleng ika guba ug pamilya..