Teenage pregnacy: Abortion or Marriage?

[mulanlovesmushu]

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When a girl gets pegnant whats the right thing to do?
Abortion?
Marriage?
Is there a choice?
Who decides?

[Ljane]

take care of the baby..no need to get married kai napregnant lang ka...anyway both of you can take care sa n u baby bsag dili pa mo minyo...lisod man kung magminyo lang mo kai nana baby, wat if naa usa dili ganahan, so mapugos ra

[makathy]

getting married because the girl is pregnant is NOT a solution.. more than 50% of teens that got married bcoz of the baby only ends up in separation & annullment in the long run.. only get married if you are really committed & dedicated in making the marriage work.. and that you are sure that you love the person & willing to spend the rest of your life w/ him/her..

marriage is not always the answer.. one shouldn't solve a mistake w/ another mistake..

abortion is not the answer either.. not only is the girl risking her own life.. but she may be haunted by her guilt for killing her own baby for the rest of her life.. not to mention the many (health) complications that comes with it later..

i think that the best thing a teen would do in teenage pregnancy is as her parents for help.. they are the only ones that can support her and guide her in this kind of situation.. she should own up to her actions..

and as for the guy who got the girl pregnant.. just be a man and he should just face fatherhood with responsibility..

[fressia]

NEVER ABORT THE BABY
it's okay to get married only if you are emotionally, mentally and financially ready...having a family of your own is a big responsibility...

[rishee]

I had very nice experience talking to a taxi driver ganiha..

He was telling me how he regret not having kids early kay ila daw silingan had kids early... nya karon.. they're still middle-aged but the kids are already nahimutang..

he said he's getting old na nya iya kids gagmay pa... he's worried how the kids would cope up if something happened to him.. he has some sense too..

it's not a mistake to have kids early.. there are some good points to it to..
if you want to get married and you truly understand what marriage is, and you're not a weakling- meaning you don't fall short when life throws a hard one at you.. then you will soon have a happy life..

just be sure to instill in your kids the values of a good person.. teach them the importance of being strong and expose them to trials and challenges in early life.. tell them that they only fall to pick themselves up again..

of course, you must be a good parent and are willing to be a good citizen and model for your kids..
communicate with them..dli lang kay ibilin sa lola...

a big problem with the world is that they lack communication..

also.. teach them the value of self control and self discipline.. hinoon.. learn that first yourself.

remember that everything happens for a reason.. no matter how weird your life is.. you just have to deal with it.. and don't carry the weight of the world on your shoulder.. share it with friends and family or offer it to God.

ayt?

[jlodarl]

getting marriage just because of the baby.. for me its not right you can both take care of the baby without getting marriage and please don't abort the baby... not his/her fault... it doesnt solve the problem..

[jlodarl]

I had very nice experience talking to a taxi driver ganiha..

He was telling me how he regret not having kids early kay ila daw silingan had kids early... nya karon.. they're still middle-aged but the kids are already nahimutang..

he said he's getting old na nya iya kids gagmay pa... he's worried how the kids would cope up if something happened to him.. he has some sense too..

it's not a mistake to have kids early.. there are some good points to it to..
if you want to get married and you truly understand what marriage is, and you're not a weakling- meaning you don't fall short when life throws a hard one at you.. then you will soon have a happy life..

just be sure to instill in your kids the values of a good person.. teach them the importance of being strong and expose them to trials and challenges in early life.. tell them that they only fall to pick themselves up again..

of course, you must be a good parent and are willing to be a good citizen and model for your kids..
communicate with them..dli lang kay ibilin sa lola...

a big problem with the world is that they lack communication..

also.. teach them the value of self control and self discipline.. hinoon.. learn that first yourself.

remember that everything happens for a reason.. no matter how weird your life is.. you just have to deal with it.. and don't carry the weight of the world on your shoulder.. share it with friends and family or offer it to God.

ayt?

great opinion!! thumbs up ko ani!! heheh

[7DMM]

both choices are not an option.

[bachelle1130]

both jud dili option.. definitely not abortion..!! tsk tsk.. if you have to choose jud, marriage nalng ko kaysad ipa.abort. but you still have a choice uie.. and YOU decide kay imo manang future..

lets say if the guy wont marry you, bahala na xa.. dont think of aborting the baby... naka.sala na gani ka, samutan pa jud nimo..

hehe.. serious au ui..

[svdz]

if abort doble na sala, fornication and murder.
if marry without love miserable ang life after.
so i choose to take of the baby nlng then marry if sure na na there is love kung wa aw wa tay mabuhat.