Stories of Forgiveness

[chormatus]

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An author has said "Forgiveness is love's toughest test"

Whether we agree or not, it is difficult to forgive those who wronged us, especially when they are the people we love most. Tell us your heart-warming stories of forgiveness. What is the offense? How did you forgive? What were the results?

[Soul_Captive]

I forgave my recent ex for all the lies he made up..What I did? I did not act on my anger and took revenge..In fact, I befriended his girlfriend and helped her find a job..

The result: I'm starting to move on without any baggage and hatred, and it is easier..

[rishee]

People may not know it but I forgave him, and even if it doesn't show because I still rant about it, I really have freed that grudge from my heart. I have now moved on...with the occassional ranting of course.

He took a really BIG part of my life away from me.. that was a really big source of strength and refuge for me... it was something that i had fought for all my life, neglecting even those i shouldn't have...

If I could only tell him to look at me and look at what he did to my life.
I wish he would see that he did destroy all that I built. I am a nobody now. I worked so hard then. I could still remember endless reading loudly. i remember endless nights of pencil biting agony.

It was the hardest sacrifice in my life but it was, at the same time, the most fulfilling one..
I just cannot believe you blew me off after I supported you all that time. I bet you didn't know that I saved your arss a couple of times back there.

You'll probably laugh when you'll know that I still rant about this. I still remember this each day that i wake up. I still think of what if...I still feel the pain and the remorse that comes with it. Although I cannot say that I regret what I did because I had all the beautiful things happen to me after that day.


Despite all the mean things that I say about you, I always knew were a never really a bad guy. Just some stuck up bish overwhelmed with all this power.

I wish you well....


though I will still rant about what u did. hehehe!

[crush_23]

nah woi..di pa ko kaforgive jud...i dunno...sumbody save me...hehehhe


di pa nako kaya... and sana di nako kita niya kay basin makuyapan ko...heheheh

[Abby_mcwayne]

to forgive is to forget daw..

but fortunately or unfortunately, i just can't seem to do that..

i can forgive one time but if mkasala na sad.. nah.. dli jud ko mkalimot until sch time na matapok tanan..
faets..

i hold grudges.. that's a fact..

[topaz]

i have been trying to forgive him, abi gani nko dli nako xa ma forgive for all the lies.
but pagkita namo, ok raman. wala na. i mean na forgive na diay nako xa.. friends ra mi.. hehee

[tamxy]

it's really hard to forgive jud if napa ka hidden feelings with that person...pero if maka move on naka...that's the time u can forgive them...it goes with time man pud...

[chormatus]

@ rishee Although you said you've forgiven the person who took a big part of your life away from you, you seem to have unresolved issues with the guy who broke your heart until now. I just wonder why did you let him take a big part of your life away from you... its supposed to be yours in the first place.

[chormatus]

I forgave my recent ex for all the lies he made up..What I did? I did not act on my anger and took revenge..In fact, I befriended his girlfriend and helped her find a job..

The result: I'm starting to move on without any baggage and hatred, and it is easier..

Although people may think that you were a looser because you did not get back at him with all his lies, you end up happy and was able to move on easily. Things could have been more complicated had you took revenge. Besides there is a just God who will have to take care of the consequences of what he did to your heart. You may call it "consequence of his actions" or "karma", but what he did will always come back to him.

[rishee]

@ rishee Although you said you've forgiven the person who took a big part of your life away from you, you seem to have unresolved issues with the guy who broke your heart until now. I just wonder why did you let him take a big part of your life away from you... its supposed to be yours in the first place.

i have no romantic relationship with him but i still rant about it kay deep inside,
i still lookup to him the way i used to before he hurt me..

and its somewhat a constructive criticism nlng pud bah
hehe