About One's Past: To tell or not to Tell?

[512mvgu1]

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Good morning mga istoryans. I just want to know your views on, is it important for you to let the guy or girl know about your your past? i mean ok ra ba before ka manguyab or sugton mas maau ba na makbalo or pahibal-on na nimo ang guy or girl about sa past? like for example anak lang ka sa gawas..... dli na virgin ang guy or girl.....

hope i can get an good answer from this thread. tnx in advance.

[akosabni]

no its not important that she knows my past, especially if were not having a serious relationship

[mikogerald]

Okey raman sulti ka daan bro. dili naman na mu matter imong past kong ganahn gyd ang girl nmo. past is past gyd. kong dili cya ka dawat pasabot naa cya gi apas sa imo. naa condition iyang love way ayo.

[grlnxtdor16]

hmmm.... for me nindot man na mu sulte jud ka sa imo past. it shows nga you want to you other half to know who you really are...that is kung you are aiming for a serious relationship.kay kung fling2 ra why bother!?!? kapoie2 lang kag sulte.
usa pa being totally honest with ur bf/gf right from the very start is a good thing for the both of you to develop a good foundation in your relationship

[ChaosOrb]

kung serious namo, ang planning on going steady that might lead to marriage....TELL JUD!

[sexyjelly]

if serious jud ka niya and makita nimu na sincere kaayo ang tao nimu then you should tell him ryt away kung unsa man iya dapat mahibaw.an... para fair sa iya part if makadawat ba cya nimu gyud.. if dili ka serious niya then no need to tell him about your past.. let him discover it...

[ahoi]

past is past

[histrionic0311]

let it go, past is past, but if both of u are in mutual understanding of each other, den tell it directly and honestly to him/her

[jlodarl]

for me its not important but as you go along sa inyo relationship ma istoryahan ra man na ninyo.... past is not important... what is important is the present and the future with him/her.

[PazzieGirl]

Sometimes its good to tell everything about your past kay there you will know kung unsa ka ka-love sa imo bf or even husband... But sometimes, instead of the good intention of being honest, malahi man hinuon ug sabot... It maybe accepted, but when time comes nga youll have misunderstandings it will then be used against you... it really depends...